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Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Assalam Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatahu !
Jundub (Radi Allah Anhu) Said :
The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) Said,
" He Who Lets The People Hear Of His Good Deeds
The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) Said,
" He Who Lets The People Hear Of His Good Deeds
intentionally, To Win Their Praise,
Allah Will Let The People Know
His Real intention (on the Day of Resurrection),
And He Who Does Good Things in Public
To Show Off And Win The Praise Of The People,
Allah Will Disclose His Real intention
Commentary :
This Hadith shows the consequences of different acts of show-off
and informs us that such acts will be a cause of humiliation and
disgrace on the Day of Judgement.
You get what you expect, good or bad, according to your deeds.
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Islamic Development Bank (IDB) Scholarship Programme for Muslim Communities in Non-Member Countries (SPMC)
Last date for Application is Tuesday 31 July 2012.
So hurry! Your dreams are waiting for you.
Islamic Development Bank, Jeddah, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, introduced its scholarship program in many countries including India in the year of 1983 with a view to promote professional education among Muslim community. This emerged as the main source of our program.
To Qualify for Scholarships, Students should meet the following Requirements
Must have secured minimum 60% marks in English, Physics, Chemistry and Biology/Mathematics in SSC (10+2) examination.
Applicants for bachelor courses in Business Administration (BBA) and Law must have scored minimum 60% marks in English and optional/elective subjects in SSC (10+2).
Age not over 24 years and not in receipt of any other scholarship.Only if the students or their parents are financially weak and unable to pay for his/her education. Students opting for payment seats need not apply.
Students benefiting from this scholarship must undertake to serve their community and country on completion of their studies.
Approved areas of study Under the Program:
Bachelor's Degree Courses in Medicine (including Ayurveda, Unani & Homeopathy) Dentistry, Pharmacy, Veterinary Science, Physiotherapy, Nursing, Lab Technician, Bio-Technology and Microbiology, Engineering(all branches) Agriculture, Fisheries, Forestry, Food Technology, Bachelor of Business Administration and Bachelor of Law.
How to complete the Application Forms:
Application must be in typed form or written clearly with ink in block letters and TWO sets be prepared with all supporting documents.
1. All information must be provided in English. Please attach certified translation of any document not in English.
2. All information requested must be provided ; otherwise processing of the application may be delayed or may not be processed.
3. Indicate your State of Domicile: viz Assam, Bihar, Tamil Nadu etc on the the top of the Application Form
Bachelor's Degree Courses in Medicine (including Ayurveda, Unani & Homeopathy) Dentistry, Pharmacy, Veterinary Science, Physiotherapy, Nursing, Lab Technician, Bio-Technology and Microbiology, Engineering(all branches) Agriculture, Fisheries, Forestry, Food Technology, Bachelor of Business Administration and Bachelor of Law.
How to complete the Application Forms:
Application must be in typed form or written clearly with ink in block letters and TWO sets be prepared with all supporting documents.
1. All information must be provided in English. Please attach certified translation of any document not in English.
2. All information requested must be provided ; otherwise processing of the application may be delayed or may not be processed.
3. Indicate your State of Domicile: viz Assam, Bihar, Tamil Nadu etc on the the top of the Application Form
CONCEPT OF THE PROGRAMME
The IDB Scholarship Program is more than just a scholarship program in the traditional sense, i.e. as a straight financial assistance to needy and qualified students. It is also a tool for the improvement of the social and economic conditions of the Muslim community as a whole. It is a scholarship program and a community development program at the same time, since the scholarship is given as an interest-free loan (qardh-e-hasna) to the students but as a grant to the community to which they belong to in the shape of its refunds.
Besides, the students are also required to take part in the development of their community through their respective profession. The repaid fund is recycled, to provide scholarships for other deserving students, to complement the IDB Scholarship Program and to ensure continuity of the Program in the long run, while the community development services rendered by the students will contribute to the overall development of the community and the country.
The IDB Scholarship Program is more than just a scholarship program in the traditional sense, i.e. as a straight financial assistance to needy and qualified students. It is also a tool for the improvement of the social and economic conditions of the Muslim community as a whole. It is a scholarship program and a community development program at the same time, since the scholarship is given as an interest-free loan (qardh-e-hasna) to the students but as a grant to the community to which they belong to in the shape of its refunds.
Besides, the students are also required to take part in the development of their community through their respective profession. The repaid fund is recycled, to provide scholarships for other deserving students, to complement the IDB Scholarship Program and to ensure continuity of the Program in the long run, while the community development services rendered by the students will contribute to the overall development of the community and the country.
Scholarship Division
Islamic Development Bank,
P.O. Box 5925, Jeddah 21432, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia
Tel:+966-2- 646 6833; Fax: +966-2- 646 6887;
E-mail:scholar@isdb.org
Islamic Development Bank,
P.O. Box 5925, Jeddah 21432, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia
Tel:+966-2- 646 6833; Fax: +966-2- 646 6887;
E-mail:scholar@isdb.org
IDB Scholarship Programme for Muslim Communities
In Non-Member Countries (SPMC)
Contact of Counterpart Organizations (CPOs) for Islamic Development Bank
Muslim Education Trust
E-3, Abul Fazl Enclave,
Jamia Nagar, New Delhi INDIA.
Phone Off.: 91 11 26957004; 26941354; 65738725; 26941028
Tele/Fax: 91 11 26949076; 26929354
Email: sitdelhi@rediffmail.com
Contact only for Maharashtra & Goa: Mr. Irfan Shahid, Mob: 08080997775
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Lodha Foundation Scholarship
Last date for Application is Monday 14 May 2012.
So hurry! Your dreams are waiting for you.
Program Benefits
1. Trust will pay 75% of the school fees of the students, subject to a maximum of Rs. 18,000 per year / 1,500 per month. Fee will be paid directly to the school on a quarterly basis.
2. Students who get 80% or higher marks (weighted average of all school-level exams held during the year) will receive an additional stipend of Rs. 3,000 per year for use towards their intellectual growth.
Eligibility and application process
2. Students who get 80% or higher marks (weighted average of all school-level exams held during the year) will receive an additional stipend of Rs. 3,000 per year for use towards their intellectual growth.
Eligibility and application process
1. Students who is studying in a school located in MMR region (MMR) (including Mumbai, Thane, Mira Bhayandar, Kalyan Dombivali, Vasai-Virar, Navi Mumbai)
2. Eligibility: Students belonging to families whose annual household income is less than Rs. 4,50,000 per annum .
3. Selection shall be made on basis of merit and financial need, as per the sole decision of the Governing body.
4. Over 1000 such scholarships shall be given each year of which minimum 50% shall be earmarked towards families of government employees and preference shall be given to female students.
5. Only Indian nationals are eligible to apply for this program.
6. Students already availing of any other scholarship are not eligible for this program.
7. Decision on award will be notified by email by 30th May for all except Std X passouts and within 30 days of the declaration of the respective board results for Std X passouts.
8. To maintain eligibility for next academic year, students have to obtain min. 70% in their school exams (weighted average of all school-level exams held during the year).
9. Fresh application is required to be made after 3 consecutive academic years of receiving the program benefits.
10. Only one child per family will be eligible for this scholarship.
Application forms to be filled online or to be sent by post or courier with relevant enclosures should be sent by post or courier, to the address mentioned below:
2. Eligibility: Students belonging to families whose annual household income is less than Rs. 4,50,000 per annum .
3. Selection shall be made on basis of merit and financial need, as per the sole decision of the Governing body.
4. Over 1000 such scholarships shall be given each year of which minimum 50% shall be earmarked towards families of government employees and preference shall be given to female students.
5. Only Indian nationals are eligible to apply for this program.
6. Students already availing of any other scholarship are not eligible for this program.
7. Decision on award will be notified by email by 30th May for all except Std X passouts and within 30 days of the declaration of the respective board results for Std X passouts.
8. To maintain eligibility for next academic year, students have to obtain min. 70% in their school exams (weighted average of all school-level exams held during the year).
9. Fresh application is required to be made after 3 consecutive academic years of receiving the program benefits.
10. Only one child per family will be eligible for this scholarship.
Application forms to be filled online or to be sent by post or courier with relevant enclosures should be sent by post or courier, to the address mentioned below:
Lodha Foundation
Level P 2, Lodha Excelus,
N.M.Joshi Marg
Mahalaxmi, Mumbai – 400 011
Phone: +91 22 23024400
Fax: +91 22 23000693
Fax: +91 22 23000693
e-mail: lodhafoundation@lodhagroup.com
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Sitaram Jindal Foundation Scholarship
So hurry! Your dreams are waiting for you
The Jindal Trust Studentship awards are scholarships awarded by the Sitaram Jindal Foundation, known earlier as the S.J.Jindal Trust. The S.J. Jindal Trust was established by Dr.S.R. Jindal with the able assistance of his wife Smt.Jamnadevi Jindal, in the year 1969. Among its many objectives, the Sitaram Jindal Foundation focuses mainly onn
- Providing financial assistance and maintaining schools, colleges, pathshalas and other centers of learning for the education of children
- Establish schools, colleges and educational institutions for the spread of knowledge and mental growth of individuals in the country.
- Offering financial help to orphanages, old age homes and homes for rehabilitation of women who are in distressed condition.
- Offering financial assistance to physically disabled students
The Jindal Trust Studentship are given for:
- B.Tech Scholarships
- BA Scholarships
- B.Arch Scholarships
- B.Com Scholarships
- B.E. Scholarships
- B.Ed. Scholarships
- B.Pharm Scholarships
- B.Sc. Scholarships
- B.Sc. Agriculture Scholarships
Eligibility Criteria for the Jindal Trust Studentship:
The S.J. Jindal Foundation scholarships are available to:
The S.J. Jindal Foundation scholarships are available to:
- Girl students studying in classes 9 and 10.
- Girl students studying in classes 11 and 12
- Graduates from all streams such as Arts, Science, Commerce, Pharmacy, Homeopathy, Naturopathy, Engineering, Medicine
- Post graduate courses in Arts, Science, Pharmacy, Library Science, Mass Communication, Veterinary Science etc
- Students who have obtained more than 65% marks in the courses mentioned above are eligible to apply for the scholarships. Students should have passed the earlier examination in the first attempt
- Girl students who have obtained at least 50% marks in class 9 or 10 are eligible for the scholarships
- Since the scholarships are for students representing the financially weaker sections of our society, documentary evidences are required to be submitted to the Foundation for availing of the scholarships
- The candidates applying for the scholarships should be citizens of India
- The candidates should not be in employment, either part time or whole time
- Students who are either registered in part time courses or are pursuing private correspondence courses cannot avail of the scholarships
Value of Scholarships :
The scholarship amount varies from a monthly allowance of Rs. 400/- to Rs.2,200/-
Eligibility Criteria for the Jindal Trust Studentship:
The eligibility criteria for the Jindal Trust Studentship are as follows :
The scholarship amount varies from a monthly allowance of Rs. 400/- to Rs.2,200/-
Eligibility Criteria for the Jindal Trust Studentship:
The eligibility criteria for the Jindal Trust Studentship are as follows :
- Candidates applying for the studentship should have a Bachelor's degree with a minimum of 60% marks
- Candidates should necessarily belong to the economically weaker section of the society
Duration :
The number of fellowships that awarded in year are not fixed. The Fellowships are for a period of 1 year.
Application procedure of the Jindal Trust Studentship:
Applications for the studentships are scrutinized and evaluated by the Trust members and selection is done by them. The applications should contain the following information :
The number of fellowships that awarded in year are not fixed. The Fellowships are for a period of 1 year.
Application procedure of the Jindal Trust Studentship:
Applications for the studentships are scrutinized and evaluated by the Trust members and selection is done by them. The applications should contain the following information :
- Information about family
- The course for which he/she is applying for scholarship
- Percentage of marks obtained in the previous examination
- Yearly income of parents
- Valid reasons for applying for the scholarship
Value of Fellowships:
The Fellowships provide for tuition fees of the students.
Address :
For students in the northern and eastern parts of India the contact address is :
Sitaram Jindal Foundation
'Naturalle'
No.11, Green Avenue, Behind Sector D 111
Bhatta Road, Vasant Kunj
New Delhi 110 070
Phone: 011 26890962 -63 011- 26890914
Email: jaldel@jindalaluminium.com
For students in the southern and western parts of India the contact address is:
Sitaram Jindal Foundation
Jindal Nagar,Tumkur Road
Bangalore 560073
Phone: 080 2371 7777
Email: sjjt@inysonline.org
The Fellowships provide for tuition fees of the students.
Address :
For students in the northern and eastern parts of India the contact address is :
Sitaram Jindal Foundation
'Naturalle'
No.11, Green Avenue, Behind Sector D 111
Bhatta Road, Vasant Kunj
New Delhi 110 070
Phone: 011 26890962 -63 011- 26890914
Email: jaldel@jindalaluminium.com
For students in the southern and western parts of India the contact address is:
Sitaram Jindal Foundation
Jindal Nagar,Tumkur Road
Bangalore 560073
Phone: 080 2371 7777
Email: sjjt@inysonline.org
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Attend top US colleges at no charge
Apr 19, 2012, 06.02AM IST Reuters
Five prestigious US universities will create free online courses for students worldwide through a new, interactive education platform dubbed Coursera, the founders announced on Wednesday.
The two founders, both professors of computer science at Stanford University, also announced that they had received $16 million in financing from two Silicon Valley venture capital firms.
Coursera will offer more than three dozen college courses in the coming year through its website at coursera.org, on subjects ranging from Greek mythology to neurology, from calculus to contemporary American poetry.
The classes are designed and taught by professors at Stanford, Princeton, the University of California at Berkeley, the University of Pennsylvania and the University of Michigan.
Coursera joins a raft of ambitious online projects aimed at making higher education more accessible and affordable. Many of these ventures, however, simply post entire lectures on the web, with no interactive component. Others strive to create brand-new universities from scratch.
Founders Daphne Koller and Andrew Ng say Coursera will be different because professors from top schools will teach under their university's name and will adapt their most popular courses for the web, embedding assignments and exams into video lectures, answering questions from students on online forums - even, perhaps, hosting office hours via videoconference.
Multiple-choice and short-answer tests will be computer scored. Coursera will soon unveil a system of peer grading to assess more complex work, such as essays or algorithms.
Students will not get college credit. But Coursera may offer "certificates of completion" or transcripts for a fee.
The company may also seek to turn a profit by connecting employers with students who have shown aptitude in a particular field, a spokeswoman said. Participating universities expect to benefit by boosting their reputation, connecting with farflung alumni and bringing in donations from grateful online students.
The two founders, both professors of computer science at Stanford University, also announced that they had received $16 million in financing from two Silicon Valley venture capital firms.
Coursera will offer more than three dozen college courses in the coming year through its website at coursera.org, on subjects ranging from Greek mythology to neurology, from calculus to contemporary American poetry.
The classes are designed and taught by professors at Stanford, Princeton, the University of California at Berkeley, the University of Pennsylvania and the University of Michigan.
Coursera joins a raft of ambitious online projects aimed at making higher education more accessible and affordable. Many of these ventures, however, simply post entire lectures on the web, with no interactive component. Others strive to create brand-new universities from scratch.
Founders Daphne Koller and Andrew Ng say Coursera will be different because professors from top schools will teach under their university's name and will adapt their most popular courses for the web, embedding assignments and exams into video lectures, answering questions from students on online forums - even, perhaps, hosting office hours via videoconference.
Multiple-choice and short-answer tests will be computer scored. Coursera will soon unveil a system of peer grading to assess more complex work, such as essays or algorithms.
Students will not get college credit. But Coursera may offer "certificates of completion" or transcripts for a fee.
The company may also seek to turn a profit by connecting employers with students who have shown aptitude in a particular field, a spokeswoman said. Participating universities expect to benefit by boosting their reputation, connecting with farflung alumni and bringing in donations from grateful online students.
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Qamar Islam <qamarmi@yahoo.com> wrote:
The Message - Story Of Islam (1976) Urdu Full Movie (MUST SEE)
pls click link belwo ..
Abdulkhader, Mohammed <makhaderwgl@gmail.com> wrote:
"Hoqooq Zoujain حقوق الزوجين "
"Witr Ke Namaz صلاة الوتر "
Please click the below link to download Friday 27th April 2012 Dars-e-Quran , Urdu tafseer
Surah Al Imran Ayat 187 to 192 Tafseer by Shaikh Iqbal Kailani on 27-04-2012.mp3
Beautiful story. Please take a few moments to watch.
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From: abdul malik khan <malikkhan_238@yahoo.co.in>
Government of New Zealand is running an online poll to know our opinion on banning hijab in that country. Vote "NO" and help the sisters in New Zealand. DO NOT IGNORE, AND SEND TO AS MANY MUSLIMS AS YOU CAN see the link
Government of New Zealand is running an online poll to know our opinion on banning hijab in that country. Vote "NO" and help the sisters in New Zealand. DO NOT IGNORE, AND SEND TO AS MANY MUSLIMS AS YOU CAN see the link
Myshkin Ingawale: A blood test without bleeding
http://www.ted.com/talks/myshkin_ingawale_a_blood_test_without_bleeding.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/myshkin_ingawale_a_blood_test_without_bleeding.html
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Nikah Aasaan Ya Mushkil?
-URDU-
by Fadhilat As-Shaikh Badi-Uz-Zama Madani (Hafidhahullah)
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From: Asif Khan <asif_khan12350@yahoo.com>
The following comments were published in online edition of Siasat in response to the news about the Police brutality on Muslim youths. They provide genuine guidelines to be noted and (Allah forbid) followed in case any Muslim brother/sister is afflicted with this calamity.
Dear Readers,
Any physical abuse by any government employee including police personals is a punishable crime under INDIAN constitution. No government employee including police personals have the right to abuse or beat any person irrespective what crime he has committed. It is very petty that people of our country are not aware of this. If any person is beating by any government employee or police personal what he should do.
1. Approach a Government Hospital (Osmania Hospital) and go through treatment and collect an MLC from the Duty Doctor.
2. The next approach Human Right commission and register a case in human right court against that police personal.
3. With the reference of Human Right Commission approach the court to file a court refer case against that police personal, it is the responsibility of the Magistrate to appoint and neutral Police Station to register a case against the culprit police officers.
4. If the case is registered, record your and witnesses statements in timely manner to the investigating officer and promptly attend the court days.
5. Even after court order if police if not booking a case against the culprit officers then file an affidavit against the SHO and ACP of that appoint police statement in the court for contempt of court which there has done by not registering a case.
6. If any political party is interfering in your matter then write a letter addressing President of India describing entire situation even mentioning the partiality of police department as well as threatening of political parties by send a copy of PMO, Home Secretary New Delhi, Chief Justice Supreme Court of India, Chief Justice High Court of AP, DGP A.P., Commissioner of Police, Hyd., Addl. Commissioner of Police Law and Order, Hyd. C.M. Complaint Cell, D.CP. Of that Zone and to all electronic and press media.
If you follow all the above steps then all the concern authorities as per law would dance on your tune.
Regards
Siraj Naveed
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Trading in cigarettes
Question: What is the Islaamic ruling regarding one who trades in cigarettes which are sold under licence from the cigarette company?
Response: Smoking is haraam, growing tobacco is haraam, and trading in it is haraam, because of the great harm which it causes. And it was narrated in the hadeeth:
«There should be no causing harm nor reciprocating harm»,
and because it is (regarded as) one of the evil things (al-khabaa.ith). Allaah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says, in describing the Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam):
{He allows them as lawful at-Tayyibaat [all good and lawful things] and prohibits them as unlawful al-Khabaa.ith [all evil and unlawful things]}, [Soorah al-A'raaf, Aayah 157].
And Allaah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says (interpretation of the meaning):
{They ask you what is lawful for them. Say: 'Lawful unto you are at-Tayyibaat [all good and lawful things]}, [Soorah al-Maa'idah, Aayah 4].
And with Allaah lies all success and may Allaah send prayers and salutations upon our Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) and his family and his companions.
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Qaiser Aadil <mamqaiser@gmail.com> wrote:
Misuse of Antibiotics – May Kill Your Loved Ones
By Irshad Mahmood – Global Auliyaa (PRESIDENT), Siraat-al-Mustaqeem Dawah Centre
Search on the internet to check American, Canadian, or European Medical Journals before making any decisions. Thousands of Remedies are there for Thousands of diseases. Depending upon situation, Doctors need to decide and one must listen to his/her Family Doctor (Medical Practitioner), without bugging him/her, otherwise, he/she may say inside his/her heart, NOT directly to you "go to hell". Below are key things to remember to save you and your loved ones life.
1> How severe are sicknesses?
2> How much is this urgency?
3> Can you avoid antibiotics?
4> Can you quit in the middle, without completing full course?
4> Can it be cure with Home Remedy or Herbal Remedy if there is not urgency?
You must avoid taking antibiotics as much as you can, BUT if you have to take it, make sure to complete its full course (ten days), otherwise you will sure develop antibiotic resistant bacteria, which in turn might become super bug, and may kill you, since no medicine will work for you.
Here I would like to mention one simple case of severe pain and fever to understand. You should look first for the cause of the fever and take medication for that from your Family Doctor if it is not severe.
1> Severe HIGH Fever: Anytime above 104 degree Fahrenheit 40 degree centigrade.
MUST CALL 911 - EMERGENCY
2> High Fever: Anytime above 102 degree Fahrenheit 39 degree centigrade.
Below 104 degree Fahrenheit 40 degree centigrade.
MUST RUSH TO SEE DOCTOR
3> Medium Fever: Above 100 degree Fahrenheit 37.5 degree centigrade.
: Below 102 degree Fahrenheit 39 degree centigrade.
Try over the counter medication, like Tylenol/Panadol
: And other cough and cold medication etc.
Ask pharmacist to help you.
4> Low Fever: Below 100 degree Fahrenheit 37.5 degree centigrade.
: Above 99 degree Fahrenheit 37 degree centigrade.
Try home remedy or other herbal remedy first.
: Watch it for 24 to 48 hours, if not improving consult Doctor.
Side effects of antibiotics: Every medicine has some side effects, some are short term temporary, while others are long term temporary and in exceptional cases permanent and same is true for Antibiotics. For short term temporary side effects, you don't need to worry at all. For Long term temporary side effects, you will need to re-think for a long time, while for permanent side effects, you will need to re-think millions of times, and want to make sure if it is for life saving, like Chemotherapy or Radiation treatment etc. If it is for life saving, then you will sure need to go for it, even though it is very painful.
Confusion between side effects or due to disease: Here I would like to give an example, e.g. one gets some pimples on their back or face, make sure it is getting better or worse, if it is getting better, then no need to worry. You should worry, if it is getting worse, or painful, or itchy or very reddish etc. Keep in mind due to high fever one may get this type of pimples, and as soon as fever goes down, you feel improvement, so in this case you should continue taking medications.
Remember: Saving a life is like saving the whole world. Save yourself and your loved ones before it gets too late. (Ref. Al_Quraan_005.032)
YOU MUST AVOIDE ANTIBIOTICS, BUT IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT COMPLETE FULL COURSE (on prescribed days and time)
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All of us know about Housewives. Most of our mothers had been housewives or Grahini in Hindi. They do all the cooking, cleaning and child care and other household works like shopping for household needs, paying bills and helping children in studies and homework.
However we in india have not heard about the concept of househusband .Yet this is very common in western countries nowadays. Previously the concept of a family in which wife goes to work and husband stays at home due to lack of job existed in comic films and serials only. For Ex films like Mr Mom or serial Mr or Mrs.
Just three decades ago this form of reversal of roles families in which wife goes to work and husband stays at home and does all the housework including care of children was unthinkable but now it is very common. In England one in every seven families have this kind of arrangement.
There are some causes for evolution of this kind of reversal of traditional gender roles families.
Feminism and Women's movement have greatly encouraged to women to come out of home and make a career. Due to intense lobby of Women's organizations western governments were forced to give multiple incentives , concessions and favourable treatment to females in education and employment. The result is that since last three decades female students are outnumbering male students in Western Universities and this gap is increasing every year.In some faculties almost two third students (65%) are female while male are only one third. Dropout rate for boys is more than four times than for girls in Schools. In order to get admission in professional courses like Medicine, Engineering, Law or Management one has to have a graduate degree. Since there are fewer men than women in basic graduate courses most of males are not eligible for applying in professional courses. Result is that Girls are outnumbering boys in all professional courses .One can search in google for feminization of veterinary science, medicine, Law, management courses. Last bastion of Men Engineering fell a couple of years ago when girls become majority in Engineering too.
When there are large number of female professionals married to lesser educated and lesser earning men then after family has a baby lesser earning spouse often male has to quit job to look after home.
Another important cause of increasing number of househusbands ( "stay at home dads" in politically correct language) is recession also called mancession because most workers laid off were men. Part of the reason was that industries affected by recession were Auto and construction with more male employees. But in other industries too far more men employees were laid off than women employees or in other words men are facing reverse sexual discrimination. Whatever be the reason a large number of men are finding themselves without a job while their wives are working. So they have no choice but to do usual household chores while their wives go to work.
Another cause of men accepting submissive househusband status is not because of lack of employment but by Choice. Intense brainwashing by feminist controlled media has filled many men with guilt feelings that they are neglecting families and not doing their share of household duties. Previously women had guilty feelings about going for a job and neglecting their families. Now this guilt has been passed on to men. Many men are quitting their job to do domestic chores and childcare or becoming Mr Mom or stay at home dads (househusbands).
Yet another phenomenon is many high earning women executives and professionals are preferring men who can stay at home to look after domestic affairs so that they could concentrate on their careers.Most high profile women executives in Fortune 500 companies have " stat at home dads" or househusbands For Ex- Carly Fiorina- former MD and CEO of Hawlett Packcard, Indra Nooyi at Pepsicola, Virginia (ginni) Rometty MD and Ceo of IBM etc.
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From: The Qur'an Foundation <thequranfoundation@gmail.com> Where in the world, are the Muslim youth getting their ideals about love, marriage and family?
by Yasmin Mogahed, Al Jumuah Vol 13 Issue 8/9
From : FAISAL MASQATI <faisalmasqati@yahoo.com>
Eventually, got married to a rich girl. Initially, they lived with his parents in the village. Soon the wife got tired of village life and persuaded the husband to move to the city leaving the old parents in the village.
As time went by, the husband seen an advert in the newspaper about a vacancy in Jeddah. He was successful and lived in Jeddah for years with his wife. Regularly he used to send money to parents. Eventually with time he stopped and forgot about his parents ever existed.
Every year he made haj and immediately after that he used to see someone telling him in a dream that his haj is not accepted. One day he related story to a pious Aalim who advised him to go back to Pakistan to visit his parents.
The man flew to Pakistan and reached the boundary of the village. Everything had changed. He could not find his house. He asked a small boy about the whereabouts of so and so. The little boy directed the man to a house and said : "In this house lives an old blind lady who lost her husband a few months ago. She has a son who migrated to Saudi Arabia years back and never came back again. What an unfortunate man ? "
Son enters the home and finds his mother on the bed. He tip-toed as not to wake her up. He hears the mother whispering or mumbling something. He gets closer to hear her voice. This is what the mother was saying :
"Ya Allah ! I am now very old and blind. My husband just died. There is no mahram to lower me in my grave when I die. So please send my son to fullfill my last wish. "
This is the ending of a story where the DUAA of a mother is accepted.
A human body can bear only 45 del (unit) of pain. But at the time of giving birth,a mother feels upto 57 del (unit) of pain... This is similar to 20 bones getting fractured, all at the same time !!
This is just to tell you the extent to which a mother loves her child !
'Love your mom till the end of your life.The lady with whom you fight almost everyday,suffered so much pain just to give you a beautiful life!
Two sisters became captivated by Islam, and their French liberal, `Jewish-by-chance' father has found himself having to face up to their religiosity and subsequent expulsion from school. The incident has provoked both private and national ferment.
Laurent Levy, a sworn liberal and a total atheist, noticed dramatic changes in his two daughters, but he did not attribute much importance to them. One day, about two years ago, the two girls stopped eating pork. "No problem," he said. A while later, they informed him that they intended to fast during the holy Muslim month of Ramadan. Levy thought it the most natural thing in the world that his daughters were adopting.
When Levy's daughters - Lila, 19, and Alma, 16 - told him that they were going to fast for the entire month of Ramadan, he did not stand in their way. "It is their right," he said.
A while later the sisters informed him of their intention to pray five times a day, as commanded by the Koran. There is no reason why they shouldn't do this, thought the father. Then they stopped going to the beach and wearing bathing suits, and even stopped using the family swimming pool during vacations. At night the two sat and learned chapters of the Koran by heart. Friends in the neighborhood and at school were amazed by the change in the two cheerful young women.
About a year ago the transformation was completed. Lila and Alma donned scarves and covered their heads. After a while they also covered their chins and their foreheads. At school they stopped talking to boys, whispered only to each other and distanced themselves from the other students. They did not take part in physical education classes, as they were required to wear gym clothes that they felt revealed too much of their bodies.
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From: Qaiser Aadil <mamqaiser@gmail.com>
Love or Desire
by Yasmin Mogahed, Al Jumuah Vol 13 Issue 8/9
In Bahrain, a teenage Muslim princess ran away from her family, her home and country forever, putting her life in jeopardy in order to marry an American marine she hardly knew. She made a decision, that she can never take back, to Iive a life of exile and sin. If asked why she did this, she would naturally say she did it for "love."
Where in the world, are the Muslim youth getting their ideals about love, marriage and family? Are we turninq to the Qur'an and the Sunnah of in Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? Unfortunately, we do not.
In the Indian subcontinent, we're turning to Indian films; In America and possibly the rest of the world, we're turning to Hollywood.
Bombay, a famous mainstream Indian film, features a Muslim girl who falls in love and ultimately marries Hindu boy. At the beginning of the film, she is shown in niqab. By the end, she is dressing like a Hindu. After her family refuses to allow their marriage, the girl runs away and does not speak to them for six years. At the end her parents come to her and all are happy.
Hollywood, one of the largest influences in the world, plays a huge role in the formation of concepts about love, marriage, and family. These films portray men and women who are "in love." And yet, often times the individual they "love" will be someone they just saw or spoke to briefly. Suddenly, however they are willing to lose their spouse, their family, their job, their life, and even their Lord. It is, therefore, more correct to say that they make these sacrifices because their desires have become their God. Allah speaks of these people when He says: "Then seest thou such a one as takes as his god his own vain desire? Allah has knowing (him as such), left him astray, and sealed his hearing and his heart (and understanding), and put a cover on his sight. Who, then, will guide him after Allah (has withdrawn guidance)? Will ye not then receive admonition?" [45:23]
But yet these very same people that Allah has described in His book as most astray have become our example and ideal. In 1998, Titanic, grossing more than 1 billion dollars in sales worldwide, became the most popular movie across the globe. The story features a young girl of age 17 who is engaged to be married. After meeting and ultimately falling in love with another man, the young girl cheats on her fiance and disobeys her mother. Both the mother and the fiance are shown as superficial in order to make her disloyalty more acceptable.
The messages of these films are very penetrating. The most powerful message is: if you sacrifice for "love", all will be well in the end. In other words, if you disregard your religion, your farmily, your God, following only your desires, you will be rewarded in the end.
If we look to America, we can see the clear effects of these misshapen concepts. 'Why has divorce reached the unprecedented rate of 40-60%? I believe the answer lies in the misconstrued definition of what true love and marriage actually is. These movies feature the wedding as the end of the movie, and thus marriage is seen as the end of a love story, rather than the beginning.
What effect does this have on our society, on our youth in particular? Who are the victims of these misconstrued ideals? What is the basis of the "love" portrayed in these movies? What criterion will young Muslims affected by these images use when choosing a spouse? Will they follow the Sunnah of the Prophet, sallallalhu alayhi wa sallam, who says the one who marries for deen is blessed? Or, will they base their choice on an empty, fleeting attraction disguised as "love"? If the youth begin to choose their spouses based on this ephemeral emotion rather than on deen, what effect will that have on the Ummah as a whole? Will not more families be broken due to divorce and strife? Will not more youth be forced to cut ties with their families (assuming they do not agree)? Will not more children be raised far from Islam?
Thus, we should be aware and guard ourselves and our children from this deceptive tool of Satan. Allah describes those people who only follow their desires numerous times throughout the Qur'an. Let us not be among those who Allah describes as most astray and let those not become our ideals. "Who is more astray than one who follows his own lusts, devoid of guidance from Allah? For Allah guides not people given to wrongdoing" [28:50]
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Shahid Khan <mail2shahid@gmail.com> wrote:
A Beautiful Love Story
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
She was one of the noblest women around, coming from a very prominent family. She was also quite beautiful and the holder of a considerable amount of wealth, being a prominent businesswoman. To marry her would have been a great feat for any man, and indeed, quite a few of the most prominent and wealthy men in society had asked for her hand. Yet, she rejected them all; already being a widow, she had lost the desire to marry again. Until he came into her life.
He was young man of 25, and although he was also of a noble family, he was an orphan and was not a man of many means. He had made a meager living tending sheep in the hills surrounding the city. Yet, he had an impeccable moral character, and he was widely known as one of the most honest men around. That is what attracted her to him: she was looking for someone honest who could conduct business for her, as she - a woman in a fiercely patriarchal society - could not do it herself.
So, he started working for her. After he came back from his first business trip, she asked her servant, whom she sent with him, about him and his conduct. The servant amazed her by his report: this young man was the kindest, gentlest man he had ever met. Never did he treat the servant harshly, as many others do. Yet, there was more: as they traveled in the heat of the desert, the servant noticed that a cloud had followed them the entire time, shading them from the blazing sun. The businesswoman was quite impressed with her new employee. Not only that, this new employee proved to be an astute businessman in his own right. He took his employer's merchandise, sold it, and with the profits bought other merchandise that he sold again, thus profiting twice.
All this was enough for her: the embers of love in her heart that were once extinguished re-kindled again, and she resolved to marry this young man, who was 15 years younger than she. So, she sent her sister to this young man. She asked him, "Why are you not married, yet?" "For lack of means," he answered. "What if I could offer you a wife of nobility, beauty, and wealth? Would you be interested?" she told him. He replied in the affirmative, but when she mentioned her sister, the young employee chuckled in amazement. "How could I marry her? She has turned down the most noble men in the city, much wealthier and prominent than me, a poor shepherd," he said. "Don't you worry," the sister replied, "I'll take care of it."
Not long after, the wealthy businesswoman married her young employee, and it was the beginning of one of the most loving, happiest, and sacred marriages in all of human history: that of Prophet Muhammad (saw) and Bibi Khadijah(ra), the daughter of Khuwaylid. When they were married, the Prophet (saw) was 25 years old, and Khadijah was 40. Yet, that did not bother the Prophet(saw) one bit. He loved her so deeply, and she loved him as deeply. They were married for 25 years, and she bore him six children: 2 sons and 4 daughters. Both the sons died in young age.
Khadijah (ra) was a source of immense love, strength, and comfort for the Prophet Muhammad (saw), and he leaned heavily on this love and support on the most important night of his life. While he was meditating in cave of Hira, the Angel Gabriel came to the Prophet Muhammad (saw) and revealed to him the first verses of the Qur'an and declared to him that he was to be a prophet. The experience astonished the Prophet Muhammad (saw), and he ran home, jumping into Khadijah's arms crying, "Cover me! Cover me!" She (ra) was startled by his behavior, and after soothing and comforting him for a while, the Prophet was able to calm down and relate to her his experience. Khadijah (ra) said "Do not worry for by Him who has dominion over Khadijah's soul, I hope that you are the Prophet of this nation. Allah would never humiliate you, for you are good to your relatives, you are true to your word, you help those who are in need, you support the weak, you feed the guest and you answer the call of those who are in distress."
She (ra) then took him to her cousin, Waraqah ibn Nawfal - a scholar well-versed in the Judeo-Christian scripture - and he confirmed to the Prophet (saw) that his experience was Divine and he was to be the Last Prophet. After his ministry began, and the opposition of his people became harsh and brutal, Khadijah (ra) was always there to support the Prophet Muhammad (saw), sacrificing all of her wealth to support the cause of Islam.
When the Prophet (saw) and his family was banished to the hills outside of Mecca, she (ra) went there with him, and the three years of hardship and deprivation eventually led to her death. The Prophet Muhammad (saw) mourned her deeply, and even after her death, the Prophet (ra) would send food and support to Khadijah's friends and relatives, out of love for his first wife. Once, years after Khadijah (ra) died, he (saw)came across a necklace that she (ra) once wore. When he saw it, he remembered her and began to cry and mourn.
His love for her never died, so much so, that his later wife A'isha (ra) became jealous of her. Once she asked the Prophet (saw) if Khadijah (ra) had been the only woman worthy of his love. The Prophet (saw) replied: "She believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand."
Much has been made and said about Prophet Muhammad's (saw) multiple marriages. There are many who smear the Prophet as a womanizing philanderer, citing his multiple marriages. This is an absolute propaganda. As a response to those who malign the Prophet (saw) , if the Prophet (saw) were anything of the sort, he would have taken advantage of his youth to do such a thing. But he did not! At a time when it was a common custom to have multiple wives, the Prophet (saw) did not marry anyone else while he was with Khadijah. It was only after Khadijah died, may Allaah be pleased with her, that he married other women. Most of these wives were widows, whom the Prophet (saw) married to care after them, or they were the daughters of prominent Arab chieftains, so that the Prophet could form a cohesive Muslim society out of a fiercely tribalistic (and barbaric) Arab culture. The smears against the Prophet fall flat on their faces once the light of truth shines brightly upon them.
In a song about the Prophet (saw) and Khadjiah (ra), Muslim rappers Native Deen sing: "We look for stories of love in places dark and cold - When we have a guiding light for the whole world to behold." Many of what we call "love stories" today are nothing more than stories of lust and desire, physical attraction disguised as love. Yet, I can find no love story more powerful, more spiritually uplifting, more awe inspiring as that of the Prophet Muhammad (saw) and Khadijah (ra). It is a shining example of what an ideal marriage is, and if I ever claim that I love my wife, , I must gauge my actions with that of the Prophet.
As the country commemorates Valentine's Day, and everywhere we turn this month: "LOVE IS IN THE AIR", I cannot help but reflect upon, what is to me, the greatest of all love stories: that of Muhammad and Khadijah.
Comments:
LOVE is a natural phenomena, which is not limited just to a young girl, as bombarded on our minds through movies. A loving person, is a person who starts his love with mother, then father then his siblings, then friends and cousins around him. With the growth of a child, the capacity of love or affection extends to relatives, society and even animals. Hence, love is not limited to a young girl, which a youth gets obsessed with to prove his heroism at certain age. A Muslim loves a brother-in-Islam for the pleasure of Allah SWT. This is a LOVE, in the light of Islam, with dignity and benefits to society ... making you a real hero of family and society, which everybody may feel proud of.
As we learned from Prophet Muhammad (saw) and Khadijah (ra), LOVE may be a starting point, which may extent to marriage and life-sharing process. But this process is left for the acceptance of two families, because a marriage is not just coupling of two persons, but more importantly an amalgamation of two families, which helps this new couple to move ahead in their new venture. Hence, the consideration of families' concern are vital to make it a successful life.
And most importantly: Allah SWT is All Hearing and All Knowing from the corner of hearts of His creators. One should not challenge Allah SWT's decision what He destined for two. It is Allah SWT who changes the hearts, supporters and situation according to His desire. If Allah SWT likes something to happen, then no one can stop it, but if Allah SWT does not want it to take place then no one can make it happen. The best is to submit once self to Allah SWT as He knows better than us.
Comments:
LOVE is a natural phenomena, which is not limited just to a young girl, as bombarded on our minds through movies. A loving person, is a person who starts his love with mother, then father then his siblings, then friends and cousins around him. With the growth of a child, the capacity of love or affection extends to relatives, society and even animals. Hence, love is not limited to a young girl, which a youth gets obsessed with to prove his heroism at certain age. A Muslim loves a brother-in-Islam for the pleasure of Allah SWT. This is a LOVE, in the light of Islam, with dignity and benefits to society ... making you a real hero of family and society, which everybody may feel proud of.
As we learned from Prophet Muhammad (saw) and Khadijah (ra), LOVE may be a starting point, which may extent to marriage and life-sharing process. But this process is left for the acceptance of two families, because a marriage is not just coupling of two persons, but more importantly an amalgamation of two families, which helps this new couple to move ahead in their new venture. Hence, the consideration of families' concern are vital to make it a successful life.
And most importantly: Allah SWT is All Hearing and All Knowing from the corner of hearts of His creators. One should not challenge Allah SWT's decision what He destined for two. It is Allah SWT who changes the hearts, supporters and situation according to His desire. If Allah SWT likes something to happen, then no one can stop it, but if Allah SWT does not want it to take place then no one can make it happen. The best is to submit once self to Allah SWT as He knows better than us.
HENCE LOVE IS NOT WHAT SHOWN IN MOVIES, AVAILABLE IN THE STREETS OR AIRED ON VALENTINE DAY, VULGARLY. IT IS A SERIOUS CONSIDERATION OF LIFE WHICH NEEDS TO BE DEALT WITH MIND, INSTEAD OF HEART, WITH DIGNITY AND SELF-RESPECT.
NEVER DO THAT THE THINGS THAT YOU DON'T WANT PUBLIC (OR YOUR CHILDREN) TO KNOW ABOUT. though Allah SWT is watching every tiny from you.
YOU ARE BOUND TO GET IN RETURN WHAT YOU SOWED FOR YOURSELF, GOOD OR BAD ..... if you find it bad, then its from you only!
NEVER DO THAT THE THINGS THAT YOU DON'T WANT PUBLIC (OR YOUR CHILDREN) TO KNOW ABOUT. though Allah SWT is watching every tiny from you.
YOU ARE BOUND TO GET IN RETURN WHAT YOU SOWED FOR YOURSELF, GOOD OR BAD ..... if you find it bad, then its from you only!
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Qaiser Aadil <mamqaiser@gmail.com> wrote:
Don't lower your expectations to meet your performance.
Raise your level of performance to meet your expectations.
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It is easy to fall (within minutes) but not easy to rise (may take years) again.
Raise your level of performance to meet your expectations.
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It is easy to fall (within minutes) but not easy to rise (may take years) again.
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A man who views the world at fifty as same he did at twenty,
A man who views the world at fifty as same he did at twenty,
then he has wasted thirty years of his life.
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Stuck in a difficult problem? Now is your chance to shine.
Pick yourself up, get to work and get triumphantly through it.
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It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief.
And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.
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Stuck in a difficult problem? Now is your chance to shine.
Pick yourself up, get to work and get triumphantly through it.
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It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief.
And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.
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From : FAISAL MASQATI <faisalmasqati@yahoo.com>
Dear All,
Hope you're fine.
A poor couple who lived in a small village in Pakistan . They had only one son. Gave him the best education. Son graduated as an Engineer in the nearby city.
Eventually, got married to a rich girl. Initially, they lived with his parents in the village. Soon the wife got tired of village life and persuaded the husband to move to the city leaving the old parents in the village.
As time went by, the husband seen an advert in the newspaper about a vacancy in Jeddah. He was successful and lived in Jeddah for years with his wife. Regularly he used to send money to parents. Eventually with time he stopped and forgot about his parents ever existed.
Every year he made haj and immediately after that he used to see someone telling him in a dream that his haj is not accepted. One day he related story to a pious Aalim who advised him to go back to Pakistan to visit his parents.
The man flew to Pakistan and reached the boundary of the village. Everything had changed. He could not find his house. He asked a small boy about the whereabouts of so and so. The little boy directed the man to a house and said : "In this house lives an old blind lady who lost her husband a few months ago. She has a son who migrated to Saudi Arabia years back and never came back again. What an unfortunate man ? "
Son enters the home and finds his mother on the bed. He tip-toed as not to wake her up. He hears the mother whispering or mumbling something. He gets closer to hear her voice. This is what the mother was saying :
"Ya Allah ! I am now very old and blind. My husband just died. There is no mahram to lower me in my grave when I die. So please send my son to fullfill my last wish. "
This is the ending of a story where the DUAA of a mother is accepted.
A human body can bear only 45 del (unit) of pain. But at the time of giving birth,a mother feels upto 57 del (unit) of pain... This is similar to 20 bones getting fractured, all at the same time !!
This is just to tell you the extent to which a mother loves her child !
'Love your mom till the end of your life.The lady with whom you fight almost everyday,suffered so much pain just to give you a beautiful life!
How many people will you forward this to? I won't mind if I get it again..
I passed it bcoz ... I Love My Mother !!!
I passed it bcoz ... I Love My Mother !!!
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From: Azher Yousuf Shaikh <samy3009@hotmail.com>Veil of tears
By Daniel Ben Simon
Two sisters became captivated by Islam, and their French liberal, `Jewish-by-chance' father has found himself having to face up to their religiosity and subsequent expulsion from school. The incident has provoked both private and national ferment.Laurent Levy, a sworn liberal and a total atheist, noticed dramatic changes in his two daughters, but he did not attribute much importance to them. One day, about two years ago, the two girls stopped eating pork. "No problem," he said. A while later, they informed him that they intended to fast during the holy Muslim month of Ramadan. Levy thought it the most natural thing in the world that his daughters were adopting.
When Levy's daughters - Lila, 19, and Alma, 16 - told him that they were going to fast for the entire month of Ramadan, he did not stand in their way. "It is their right," he said.
A while later the sisters informed him of their intention to pray five times a day, as commanded by the Koran. There is no reason why they shouldn't do this, thought the father. Then they stopped going to the beach and wearing bathing suits, and even stopped using the family swimming pool during vacations. At night the two sat and learned chapters of the Koran by heart. Friends in the neighborhood and at school were amazed by the change in the two cheerful young women.
Gradually they began to wrap themselves in long clothing, even in the summer, and covered their legs with thick stockings.
About a year ago the transformation was completed. Lila and Alma donned scarves and covered their heads. After a while they also covered their chins and their foreheads. At school they stopped talking to boys, whispered only to each other and distanced themselves from the other students. They did not take part in physical education classes, as they were required to wear gym clothes that they felt revealed too much of their bodies.
Read complete story: http://www.iviews.com/Articles/articles.asp?ref=MI1108-4799
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From: Qaiser Aadil <mamqaiser@gmail.com>
KAM ZARFF LOGON SE AISE HI UMEED KI JAA SAKTI HAI ....
| پیپسی کولا کی فیکٹری Pepsi Cola Ki Factory لڑکی کا باپ بہت خوش تھا کہ اچھے خاندان سے اسکی بیٹی کیلئے رشتہ آیا ہے Ladki Ka Baap Bohut Khush Tha Ke Ache Khandan Se Uski Beti Keliye Rishta Aaya Hai لڑکے میں ہر وہ خوبی تھی جسکی تمنا کی جا سکتی ہے۔ پڑھا لکھا، خوش اخلاق، مودب اور بر سر روزگار۔ انکار کی تو وجہ بنتی ہی نہیں تھی لہٰذہ دیگر اہل خانہ سے صلاح مشورہ کر کے یہ رشتہ قبول کر لیا گیا۔ Ladke Me Har Wo Khobi Thi Jiski Tamanna Ki Jasakti hai ,Padha Likha, Khush Aqlaaq ,Moudab Aur Barsar E Rozgar Inkar Ki Toh Wajha Banti Hi nahi Thi Lihaza Deegar Ahel E Qanaa Se Salah Mashwarah karke Ye Rishta Qubool Kar Liya Gaya بات جب دستور کے مطابق حق مہر کی چلی تو لڑکی کے باپ نے کہا ہم مردم شناس لوگ ہیں اور لڑکے کو اپنی فرزندی میں لے رہے ہیں، پیسے کی ہمارے لیئے کوئی اہمیت نہیں۔ تاہم رسماً میری بیٹی کا حق مہر صرف ایک ریال ہوگا۔ Baat Jab Dastoor Ke Mutabiq Haq E Maher Ki Chali Toh Ladki Ke Baap Ne Kaha Hum Madum Shumar Log Hain Aur Ladke Ko Apni Farzandi Me Le Rahe Hain Paise Ki Humare Paas Koi Ehmiyat Nahi Tahum Rasman Meri Beti Ka Haq Maher Sirf Ek Riyal Hoga معاملات طے پائے تو شادی کی تاریخ مقرر کر کے اس فریضہ کو سر انجام دیدیا گیا۔ لڑکی بھی کسی معاملے میں کم نا تھی، خوبصورت و خوب سیرت، تعلیم یافتہ، گھر گرہستی کے ہر فن میں ماہر۔ Mamlaat Taiy Paaye Toh Shadi Ki Tareeq Muqarar Karke is Fareezeh Ko Sar Anjam Dediya Gaya, Ladki Bhi Kisi Mamle Me Kam Naa Thi, Khoobsurat, Khoobseerat, Taleem E Yafta, Ghar Gihasti Ke Har Funn Me Mahir. جلد ہی اس نے اپنے سسرال کے ہر فرد کو اپنا گرویدہ بنا دیا۔ Jald Hi Ussne Apne Sasuraal ke Har Fard Ko Apna Girwodah Bana Liya گویا دونوں گھرانے ہی اپنی اپنی خوش قسمتی پر رشک کرتے تھے۔ Goya Dono Gharane Hi Apni Apni Khush Qismati Par Rashk Karte The میاں بیوی کے درمیان الفت و محبت کا رشتہ روز بروز گہرے سے گہرا تر ہوتا چلا گیا۔ Miya Biwi ke Darmiyan Ulfat Wo Mohabbat Ka Rishta Roz Baroz Gehra Se GehraTarr Hota Chala Gaya ایک دن پیپسی کی بوتل پیتے ہوئے نجانے خاوند کے ذہن میں کیا شیطان سمایا کہ بیوی کو کہنے لگا، Ek Din Pepsi Ki Bottle Peete Hue Najane Khawindh Ke Zahen Me Kya Shaitan Samaya Ke Biwi Ko Kehne Laga جانتی ہو تمہاری قیمت اور اس پیسپی کی بوتل کی قیمت ایک ہی ہے۔ Jaanti Ho Tumhari Qeemat Aur Iss Pepsi Ki Bottle Ki Qeemat Ek Hi Hai |
طنز تو بہت گہرا اور صدمہ دینے والا تھا مگر بیوی نے ان سنی کر دی کہ اگر بات زبان سے پھسل کر نکلی ہے تو اس کو یہیں ختم کر دیا جائے۔
Tanz Toh Bohut Gehra Aur Sadma Dene
Wala Tha Magar Biwi Ne Ann Suni Kardi Ke Agar Baat Zuban Se Phisal Kar Nikli Hai Toh Ussko Yahin Khatam Kar Diya Jaye
مگر خاوند کی تو یہ عادت ہی بن گئی کہ جب بھی پیپسی کو بوتل خریدتا تو کسی طرح بھی طنز کی کوئی صورت نکال ہی لیتا۔
Magar Khawindh Ki Toh Ye Aadat Hi Bangayi Ke Jab Bhi Pepsi Ki Bottle Qareedta Toh Kisi Tarah Bhi Tanz Ki Koi Surat Nikal Hi Leta
کبھی کہتا کہ اگر میری تم سے شادی نا ہوتی تو میں ایک اور پیپسی خرید پاتا اور کبھی کہتا کہ میری پیسپی کی بوتل کا نقصان کرانے والی۔
Kabhi Kehta Ke Agar Meri Tumse Shadi Naa Hoti Toh Mein Ek Aur Pepsi Qareed Pataa Aur Kabhi Kehta Ke Meri Pepsi Ki Bottle Ka Nuqsan Karane Wali
لڑکی بہت ہی سمجھدار اور حالات سے سمجھوتا کرنے والی تو ضرور تھی مگر ایک دن اس کا صبر جواب ہی دے دیا۔
Ladki Bohut Hi Samajhdar Aur Halat Se Samjhota Karne Wali Toh Zaroor Thi Magar Ek Din Uska Sabr Jawab Hi Dediya
اپنے خاوند سے کہا کہ میں اپنی امی سے ملنے کیلئے اداس ہوں، وہ اسے اس کے گھر لے جائے۔
Apne Khawindh Se Kaha Ke Mein Apni Ammi Se Milne Keliye Udaas Hoon, Woh Usse Uske Ghar Le Jaye
خاوند کو اس بات پر کوئی اعتراض نہیں تھا، فورا ہی تیار ہو کر چل پڑے۔
Khawindh Ko Uss Baat Par Koi Aiteraz Nahi tha Forann Hi Tayyar Hokar Chal Pade
اپنے خاوند کو بیٹھک میں چھوڑ کر لڑکی اندر اپنی ماں کے پاس گئی اور پھوٹ کر رو پڑی کہ تم نے میرا حق مہر اتنا کم مقرر کر کے میری قیمت گرا دی ہے اور اب میرا خاوند مجھے اس طرح ذلیل کر رہا ہے۔
Apne Khawindh Ko BaithaK Me Chord Kar Ladki Ander Apni MAA Ke Paas Gayi Aur Phoot Kar Ropadi Ke Tumne Mera Haq Maher Itna Kamm Muqarar Karke Meri Qeemat Gira Di Hai Aur Ab Mera Khawindh Mujhe Iss Tarah Zaleel Kar Raha Hai
اس کی ماں نے کہا کہ ابھی تیرا باپ آتا ہے تو میں اسے بتاتی ہوں مگر لڑکی کا اصرار تھا کہ وہ اپنے معاملات خراب نہیں کرنا چاہتی اس لیئے اس کے والد کو خبر نہیں ہونی چاہیئے۔
Usski MAA Ne Kaha Ke Abhi Tera BAAP Aata Hai Toh Mein Usse Batati Hoon Magar Ladki Ka Israar Tha Ke Wo Apne Mamlaat Kharab Nahi Karna Chahti Iss Liye Usske Walid Ko Khabar Nahi Honi Chahiye
مگر اس کی ماں نے کہا کہ نہیں یہ غلطی تیرے باپ نے کی ہے اس لیئے اس غلطی کو ٹھیک بھی اسی نے ہی کرنا ہے لہٰذہ اسے بتانا ضروری ہے۔
Magar Uski MAA Ne Kaha Ke Nahi Ye Ghalti Tere BAAP Ne Ki Hai Isliye Iss Ghalti Ko Theek Bhi Usne Hi Karna hai Lihaza Usse Batana Zaroori Hai
لڑکی کے والد نے سارا قصہ نہایت ہی تحمل کے ساتھ سنا اور بیٹی کو تسلی دی کہ وہ بالکل بے فکر رہے سب کچھ ٹھیک ہو جائے گا۔
Ladki Ke Walib Ne Saara Qissa Nihayat Hi Tehmul Ke Sath Suna Aur Beti Ko Tassali Di Ke Wo Bilkul Befikr Rahe Sab Kuch Theek Hojayega
بیٹھک میں جا کر لڑکی کے باپ نے اپنے داماد سے کہا کہ کئی دنوں سے دونوں خاندانوں کی آپس میں ملاقات نہیں ہوئی، اسلیئے وہ چاہتا ہے کہ اس کے گھر والوں کی دعوت کرے، اسلیئے وہ اپنی بیوی کو یہاں ہی رہنے دے اور کل اپنے والدین کے ساتھ دوبارہ آئے تاکہ سب لوگ مل بیٹھیں۔ لڑکا بخوشی واپس چلا گیا۔
Baithak Me Jakar Ladki Ke Baap ne Apne Damad Se Kaha Ki Kayi Dino Se Dono Khandanoun Ki Aapas Me Mulaqaat Nahi Hui Isliye Woh Chahta Hai Ke Uske Ghar Waloun ki Dawat Kare, Isliye Woh Apni Biwi Ko Yahan Hi Rehne De, Aur Kal Apne Waldein ke Sath Dobara Yahan Aaye, Taake Sab Log Mil Baithein, Ladka Bakhushi Wapas Chala Gaya,
دوسرے دن لڑکا اپنے والدین کے ساتھ جب پہنچا تو لڑکی کے والد نے تین پیپسی کی بوتلیں سب کے سامنے رکھیں اور کہا کہ یہ میری طرف سے آپکے لئے دعوت ہے۔
Dosre Din Ladka Apne Waldein Ke Sath Jab Pohencha Toh Ladki Ke Walid Ne Teen Pepsi Ki Bottalein Sab Ke Saamne Rakhein Aur Kaha Ki Yeh Meri Taraf Se Aapke Liye Dawat Hai
لڑکے کے والدین تو کچھ نا سمجھے مگر لڑکے کو اندازہ ہوگیا کہ بات شاید کچھ اور ہی ہے۔
Ladke Ke Waldein Toh Kuch Na Samajhe Magar Ladke Ko Andaza Hogaya Ke Baat Shayed Kuch Aur Hi Hai
لڑکی کا باپ بولا کہ تم نے میری بیٹی کا حق مہر ایک پیپسی کی بوتل مقرر کیا تھا جبکہ میں تمہیں تین بوتلیں پلا رہا ہوں،
Ladki Ka BAAP Bola Ke Tum Ne Meri Beti Ka Haq Maher Ek Pepsi Ki Bottle Muqarar Kiya Tha Jabke Mein Tumhe Teen Bottle Pila Raha Hoon
یہ بوتلیں پیو اور میری بیٹی کو طلاق دیکر چلے جاو،
Yeh Bottlein Peeyo Aur Meri BETI Ko Tallaq Dekar Chale Jao
مجھے تم لوگوں سے کوئی رشتہ نہیں رکھنا۔
Mujhe Tum Logoun Se Koi Rishta Nahi Rakhna
لڑکی کا خاوند تو بیہوش ہونے کے قریب تھا اور اسکے والدین کو جب سارے معاملے کی سمجھ آئی تو بھی لڑکے پر بہت ناراض ہوئے کہ اس نے ایسی نیچ حرکت کیوں کی۔
Ladki Ka Khawindh Toh Behosh Hone Ke Qareeb Tha Aur Uske Waldein Ko Jab Saare Mamle Ki Samajh Aayi Toh Bhi Ladke Par Bohut Naraz Hue Ke Uss Ne Aisi Neech Harkat Kyun Ki
جب معاملے کو سلجھانے کی بات چلی تو لڑکی کا باپ بولا کہ اگر میری بیٹی کو لیکر جانا ہے تو اسکا مہر تین لاکھ ریال ہوگا،
Jab Mamle Ko Suljhane Ki Baat Chali Toh Ladki Ke Baap Bola Ke Agar Meri Beti Ko Lekar Jana Hai Toh Uska MAHER TEEN LAKH RIYAL Hoga
جا کر لے آئیے اور میری بیٹی کو لیجائیے ورنہ نہیں۔
Jakar Le Aayein Aur Meri Beti Ko Lejayein Warna Nahi
کیونکہ مطالبہ اتنا نا مناسب نہیں تھا اور بات بھی معافی و صلح و صفائی سے آگے گزر چکی تھی۔
Kyunke Mutaliba Itna Naa Munasib Nahi Tha Aur Baat Bhi Mafi Wo Sulah Wo Safai Se Aage Guzar Chuki Thi
اسلیئے یہ سب لوگ پیسوں کے انتظام کا کہہ کر ادھر سے اُٹھ آئے اور پھر چند دنوں کے بعد حق مہر تین لاکھ ریال دیکر لڑکی کو لے آئے۔
Isliye Ye Sab Paisoun Ke Intezam Ka KehKar Udhar Se Uth Aaye Phir Chandd Dino Ke Baad Haq Maher TEEN LAKH RIYAL Dekar Ladki Ko Le Aaye
کہتے ہیں کہ اس دن کے بعد لڑکے نے دوبارہ کوئی ایسی بات کہنے اور کرنے سے تو توبہ کر لی،
Kehte Hain Ke Uss Din Ke Baad LADKE Ne Dobara Koi Aisi Baat Kehne Aur Karne Se Touba Karli
مگر کبھی کبھی یوں ضرور کہہ کر بلاتا تھا –
Magar Kabhi Kabhi Yun Zaroor Kehkar Bulata Tha---
ارے میری پیپسی کولا کی فیکٹری، کہاں ہو؟
Aree Meri Pepsi Cola Ki Factory Kahan Ho ???
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Aapki Dua Ki Talib
Mrs Rubina Yasmeen
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Our Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said:
"I leave behind me two things, the Qur'an and my example, the sunnah, and if you follow these you will never go astray."
"I leave behind me two things, the Qur'an and my example, the sunnah, and if you follow these you will never go astray."
(Saheeh-Narrated By: Al-Haakim)
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