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Valentine's Day
Do you celebrate Valentine's Day?
But what is this "Valentine's Day"?
Have we ever thought about it? What is the story behind it?
What does celebrating "Valentine's Day" really mean?
Where does this fit in a Muslims life?
In fact, does it even fit in it at all?
Looking at the Quraan and Sunnah, one should realize that we should not be celebrating it in
the first place, because it is a celebration of the non-Muslims. Whatever we need to celebrate
has been prescribed to us by Allaah and His Messenger (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) and it is
prohibited to celebrate anything else.
That is why And Allaah said:
"For every nation we have ordained religious ceremonies which they must follow."
[Surah al-Hajj: 67]
And the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said: "Every nation has its own Eid (celebration)
and this is our Eid (meaning Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha). ' (al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
But, even if this Divine command was not there, it still would not be appropriate for a Muslim
to celebrate Valentine's Day.
Why is that?
Because, if you really think about it, what this day promotes and revolves around, goes against
the very basic principles of Islam. What this day encourages, cuts at the very roots of what our
Islamic Basics.
Let us see what some of these differences are:
1. Allaah commands us to lower our gaze and not look at the opposite gender.
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and protect their private parts....And tell the
believing women to lower their gaze, and protect their private parts..." (Surah al-Noor: 30-31)
But Valentine's Day encourages people to deliberately look and stare and seek out the one that
you find attractive and pick him/her as your valentine.
2. Allaah orders the Muslim women not to talk unnecessarily or in a soft manner to strange
men.
"....then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for
adultery) should be moved with desire" (Surah al-Ahzaab: 32)
Even for the Sahaabah, Allaah ordered them to screen themselves from the wives of the
Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) when they need to ask them something. Who could be
purer than the wives of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) and who could be higher in
taqwa than the Sahaabah?
"And when you ask (the Prophets wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen,
that is purer for your hearts and for their hearts".
(Surah al-Ahzaab: 53)
Yet, for Valentine's Day, you see young men and women who are absolutely not mahram for
one another in any way whatsoever, going way beyond this prohibition. Not only are they
talking to each other in a soft and flirtatious way, but they are right out expressing their love (in
reality, lust) for each other.
3. The Sunnah prohibits a man and a woman from being alone together at any time.
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
"Whoever believes in Allaah and the Last Day, let him not be alone with a woman who has no
mahram present, for the third one present will be the Shaytaan." (Ahmad -- saheeh by al-
Albaani)
But those who celebrate Valentine's Day purposely seek to be alone with each other and go out
on dates with each other while Allaah says:
"And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its
limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him)" (al-Isra'
:32)
4. Islam prohibits a man to even touch a non-mahram woman.
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
"If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle, which would be better for
him than his touching a woman who is not permissible for him." (al-Tabaraani --saheeh by al-
Albaani)
But Valentine's Day promotes more than just touching. It promotes hugging, kissing,
cuddling and much more. May Allah protect us?
5. Islam teaches us that real love between a man and a woman that is acceptable and
allowed by Allaah is only that between a husband and his wife.
"And of His signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves that you might reside
with them, and has put love and mercy between you. Surely, there are signs in this for those
who think".
(Al-Room: 21)
But Valentine's Day endorses haraam relationships between a non-mahram man and woman
and encourages illicit love and un-Islaamic affiliations.
6. Islam tells us that Hayaa (modesty) and bashfulness is a jewel to be treasured.
It is a purity and innocence that is a virtue, regardless for a man or a woman.
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
"Hayaa (modesty) is a branch of faith." (Bukhaari)
On the other hand, this Valentine's Day advocates nothing but shamelessness and immodesty.
Young men and women who have no hayaa for Allaah, leave alone for each other, openly and
shamelessly, ask each other to be their love or be their valentine.
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On Mon, Feb 13, 2012 at 9:28 AM, Rameez Bakbak <bakbak.rameez@yahoo.com> wrote:
JazakAllah Khair.Khuda Khair Karay - RAMEEZRemember, one day you will appear before Allah and answer for your deeds.From: Rubina Yasmeen <rubina_yas@yahoo.com>
To: Rubina_Yas@yahoo.com
Sent: Monday, February 13, 2012 1:02 AM
Subject: [Yaadein_Meri] " " No To Valentine - Is It Islamic ? ? ? ? ? ? ? " "
surely we have heard a preacher calling to the faith,
saying: Believe in your Lord, so we did believe;
Ya Allah !
forgive us therefore our faults,
and cover our evil deeds and make us die with the righteous.
Ya Allah !
grant us good in this world and good in the hereafter,
and save us from the chastisement of the fire.
Ya Allah !
Accept From Us ;
Surely Thou Art The Hearing, The Knowing**********************Aapki Dua Ki TalibMrs Rubina Yasmeen**************************
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