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Sunday, 13 May 2012

[Yaadein_Meri] Remembering My Mother

 

Remembering My Mother


My Mother seems so far away from me,
On that beautiful white shore across the sea.
Yet I remember love's soft glow upon her face,
And the feel of her touch and tender embrace.

When I am weary from the burdens I've borne,
And the path is unclear and I feel so forlorn,
I remember her loving support was always near,
And her advice made the path ahead seem clear.

When I feel there is no one who seems to care,
Or when the heartache seems too hard to bear,
I remember how she always stood by my side,
And would tenderly wipe away the tears I cried.

When there are moments of great joy and pride,
And I wish my Mother was standing at my side,
I remember she saw more than I thought I could be,
And know I owe my triumphs to her belief in me.

When I reminisce about the things she used to say, 
And I miss her and think she is so far away,
I remember what she gave lives on through me,
And one day I'll see her on the shore across the sea.

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[Yaadein_Meri] *~*~*~* Apko Kho Kr Meri Maan*~*~*~*~*

 
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[Yaadein_Meri] Story of Barsisa, the worshipper (www.salaf-us-saalih.com)

 

 

 

 

 

Story of Barsisa, the worshipper

 

  

Barsisa, the worshipper

 

At the time of Bani Israel, there was a man in a small village, called Barsisa. He was, what you call, a monk. But he was a true Christian. He believed in Tawheed and believed Isa (peace be upon him) was a messenger of Allah. One day three brothers decided to go for Jihad. But they had a sister and they did not want to leave her alone. So they went looking for someone to take care of her. The town people suggested to leave her with Barsisa, because of his piety. So they went to him and when they asked him, he said, "I seek refuge from the cursed Shaytan" and said No! This was because he was scared of falling into sin ( due to the potential fitnah it may cause). Then Shaytan came to Barsisa in the form of Waswasah (Whisperings). Shaytan is very smart and knew Barsisa had a soft heart. So he told Barsisa, "What if they can't find someone good and leave her with someone bad, wouldn't that be your fault?" Now Barsisa did not realise this was Shaytan whispering in his heart, and because of his compassion for others, he decided to accept their request and help the woman.

He let her stay in a house opposite the church. He did this so that it would be easy for him to leave her her food outside the church and she could come get it herself. But after sometime, shaytan returned. This time he told Barsisa, "Why don't you leave the food closer for her, so that people don't see her moving back and forth alone!" Barsisa agreed and started leaving the food outside the house. But shaytan wasn't happy with this either, so sometime later, he returned and ask Barsisa, "Why don't you go in and leave it on the table, so that no one sees her coming out and going in alone all the time!" Again, Barsisa agreed and he started leaving the food on the table.

Then as time went by, Shaytan returned and said to him, "Why don't you talk to her, she is all alone and has no one to talk to!" Barsisa agreed and started talking to her from behind a door (so as to screen himself). But this would lead them to almost shouting to each other to here themselves. Shaytan asked Barsisa to just go in and talk to her, and finally, he (Shaytan) had got the alone in a room. Shaytan had completed the difficult part. It wasn't after Barsisa and the woman committed fornication. And to make things worse, she also became pregnant. As soon as the baby was born, Shaytan returned, and said to Barsisa, "What have you done? Look at the result of your evil (ie the child), get ride of the evidence otherwise the brothers will kill you!" Barsisa killed the baby and buried it in the same room the woman was in. Shaytan then told Barsisa, "Do you think you can kill the child of a woman and expect her not to tell anyone?!" and So Barsisa killed her and buried her along side the baby! He then made a fake grace outside and when her brothers returned, he informed them that she died of illness. After seeing the grave and make dua for her, they returned home and accepted Allah's decree.

Later that night, Shaytan came to them in their dream and informed them about what Barsisa had done and where the child and their sister could be found. The brother got up upset and confused, and informed his brothers of the dream, and they both said they had the same dream. So they believed that it must be true, and when and dug up the fake grave and found it empty. They then dug the placed shaytan showed them in the dream and found the child and woman!

Furious, the brothers took Barsisa to the Leader to get his punishment. Barsisa knew that he would be given the death penalty. Shaytan came to Barsisa again, for the final time this time. This time he revealed himself and told him he was the one whispering the thoughts to him. And he said that he could save Barsisa, and as long as Barsisa makes sujood to him! Barsisa, out of desperation made Sujood to him , this confirmed his Kufr (disbelief) and Shaytan said to him "I am free of you, I fear Allâh, the Lord of the 'Alamîn (mankind, jinns and all that exists)!" and left Barsisa was stonned to death and on the day of judgement he will be resurrected making Sujood to Shaytan!

So look how shaytan tricked him. He came to him as a friend, but was infact his biggest enemy!

(Their allies deceived them) like Shaitân (Satan), when he says to man: "Disbelieve in Allâh." But when (man) disbelieves in Allâh, Shaitân (Satan) says: "I am free of you, I fear Allâh, the Lord of the 'Alamîn (mankind, jinns and all that exists)!" (Al-Hashr 59:16)

Shaytan will never make you sin directly, he will always trick you using Waswasah and he is more patient than any of us. So we should always seek refuge in Allah from Shayatn. Never think you have anough knowledge or are strong enough to take on Shaytan. This is why the Scholars of Islam are the ones with the most Taqwa, fear of Allah. So reflect on the story, if Shaytan told Barsisa to make sujood in the beginning, Barsisa would have said no staright away, but Shaytan has a plan in hand it was a step by step policy that made Barsisa finally breakdown and commit Kufr.

 

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[Yaadein_Meri] Different Types Of Modesty & Shyness (By: Shaykh ul –Islaam Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah)

 

 

 




By Shaykh ul –Islaam Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah as-Salafi
Rahimullaah (From his book `Madaarij as-Saalikeen')

Ibn Qayyim aj-Jawzeeyah (d.751) -Rahimullaah- said: `Al-Hayaa (modesty) is divided into 10 subdivisions:

Hayaa Jinayah (the shamefulness of committing a crime),

Hayaa Taqseer (the shamefulness of deficiency),

Hayaa Ijlaal (the modesty regarding the magnificence of Allaah),

Hayaa Karm (modesty in being hospitable),

Hayaa Hishmaa (shyness in personal matters),

Hayaa Istissghar lilnafs (modesty and humbling one's soul),

Hayaa Muhabbah (bashfulness of love),

Hayaa Uboodeeyah (shyness in worship),

Hayaa Sharaf wa Izzah (being ashamed of his own nobility and honour)

and Hayaa (being shy) of one who is modest from his own self

As for:

1. Al-Hayaa (the shamefulness) of committing a crime:
From this is the Hayaa of Aadam -alaihi salam- when he fled in Paradise. Allaah Ta'ala said `Are you escaping from Me O Aadam?' he answered: `No, my Lord rather being ashamed in front of You.'

2. Hayaa Taqseer (the shamefulness of deficiency):
This is like the Hayaa of the Angels who glorify Allaah day and night and do not disobey Him and when the Day of Judgment comes they say `You (O Allaah) are far from imperfection and we did not truly carry out Your worship.'

3. Hayaa Ijlaal (modesty regarding the magnificence of Allaah):
This Hayaa is of having knowledge, it is the level of knowledge a slave has of his Lord - then the level of his Hayaa in this, will be in accordance to his level of knowledge ofAllaah.

4. Hayya Karm (modesty in being hospitable):
Like the Hayya of the Prophet -sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam- from the people when they called him to the Walima (wedding party) of Zainab and they sat with him for a very long time and he stood up and was shy from telling them to leave.

5. Hayaa Hishmaa (Shyness regarding personal matters):
Like the Hayya of Ali bin Abi Taalib -radiAllaah anhu - in asking the Prophet regarding the discharge/wetness a man feels when being aroused, due to the status of the Prophet's -sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam- daughter.

6. Hayaa Istissghar lilnafs (modesty and humbling one's soul):
Like the Hayaa of the slave of Allaah from His Lord when he asks Him for his needs, whereby he realizes that he is so needy and is humbled by it. There could be two reasons for this type of Hayaa:
a) The questioner regards himself as small and insignificant and regards his sins as great in number.
b) He (the questioner) regards the One he is asking (Allaah) as Great.

7. Hayaa Muhabbah (bashfulness of love):
This is the Hayaa of the one who loves when he remembers what he feels for his beloved, to such an extent that if this feeling occurs to him in the absence of his beloved then it stimulates the Hayaa in his heart and reaches his face (bashfulness) and he does not know why he feels this is.

8. Hayaa Uboodeeyah (shyness in worship):
This Hayaa is combined with love and fear and one witnesses that his worship of the One being worshipped (Allaah) is not good enough and the worth and value of the One being worshipped is higher and more magnificent than his worship. Thus this worship will certainly obligate his feeling shy of Allaah.

9. Hayaa Sharaf wa Izzah (being ashamed of nobility and honour):
If the value and the goodness of his sacrifice, giving and goodness is less (than he is capable of) then Hayaa emanates from this great and powerful soul and his soul becomes ashamed even though he has sacrificed (but it is not according to the caliber of his capability).

10. As for the Hayaa of the person from his own self:
It is the Hayaa of the honorable, noble and lofty soul, which is not pleased with the deficiency within itself, which is(the deficiency) of being satisfied with less (goodness). So he finds himself being shy from himself to such a degree that it is as though he possesses two souls one soul feels shy from the other. This is the most complete type of Hayaa, because if a soul feels shyness from his own self then it will obviously feel a greater shyness from other than himself.'


[Summarised from `Madaarij as-Saalikeen' vol.2 p.250-251 as collected in `Nadratul Na'eem' 5/1798]

 

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Re: [Yaadein_Meri] Maa Tujhy Salam

 

Assalam Alaikum, 

Mun-gharat qissa jo yaqeenan kissi Hindu ki jori hoi kehani lagti hie, uss ko Allah se mansoob karna aur Allah ki shaan k khilaf batian banana ghoya apna Eiman barbaad karna hie,

Beshak, Deen-e-Islam mein Maa ka Maqaam boht baland aur baaes-e-ezat aur takreem hie aur yeh moqam hamma waqat hei hatta k waldain ki moat k baad bhi aulad k laye baaes-e-ajar aur sawab hie,  naa k saal mein European k taqleed kartey howe Mother Day celebrate kar lya aur "Happy Mother Day" keh liya aur pura saal maa - baap ki khabar naa li. Allah Musimanoun ko haqeeqi Musilman banay maghrab ki taqleed-zaddah na banaye. ""Happy Mother Day" kehna bhi Maa Baap ki shan mein gustakhi mehsoos hoti hie, Dua hei Allah Jin k maa baap zinda hien unnien khidmat ki tofeeq dey aur jin key waldain foat hogay hien unn k waldain ki maghfarat farmaye besharte Musilman. ameen.
 

Thanks & Regards,

M A Khan Raza
Saudi Arabia
 
makhanraza_sardar@ymail.com 


From: rehana mohammadi <rehana_md2004@yahoo.com>
To:
Sent: Sunday, May 13, 2012 12:28 PM
Subject: [Yaadein_Meri] Maa Tujhy Salam

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

Aj Main aap ko ek aur Hikayat sunana chahta hon.. is hikayat main ek nek Buzrug (Old Man) k khowaab dekha tha to unhoon ne kya dekha tha main aap ko batana chahon ga....! Dil se is ko read keren...!

ek (old man) buzrug ne khowaab main dekha k Allah Tala ne sab firshtoon se kaha k aaj ek apni jesi cheez banane wala honn sab Farishty heraan ho gay k ye kya hone wala hay Allah jesi koi cheez wo la shreek hay aesa kya ho jo usi k jesa hoga to farishtoon ne socha k jab Allah jesa kuch banne wala hay to wo apne apne kam main lag gay koi dunyaa k sara samandar ka pani le aaya koi dunyaa k pahar le aay koi dunya k phoool khushoo k sath le aay koi dunya ki sariiiiii hawa le aay aur Allah k pass pesh hoy aur wahan pohoch k dekha k ek choti se khatoon bethi hain wo dekh k soch main par gay k ye kya hay Allah to apne jesi koi cheez banne waly thy ye kya bana diya, , To Allah ne Farmaya ye hay wo chezzz Farishty kehene lagy Yaa Rab ye kon hay hum to samjhe thy k aap apni jesi koi cheez banao gay lekin aap ne to aam is Oraat (Woman) bana di hum to is ko banane k liye pahar lay thy pani lay phool lay aur hawa lay thy to ye wapis le jain...? Allah ne Farmaya k nahi wo sara pani is k kadmoon main daal dooo. Farishty ne aesa hi kiya to wo sara pani us khatooon k main jaazzb hogaya... phr Allah ne hukum diya kye pahar bhi is k kadmoon main dal do.. to pahar bhi Jazab ho gay phr hukum hua k lao ye hawa bhi daal dooo wo bhi ek sans main us khatoon k under chali gai aur phr hukmum hua k phool bhi us ki jhooli main daal dooo aur wo phool bhi us main jazab ho gay...... Farishtoon ne kahan Ya Allah ye kya sari dunya ki nimat is khatoon k pass jazab ho gai ye kya banaya hay aap ne Allah ne farmaya k Yee Maaaa hay.....
jis tarha samnder k ek kinary se us ka dosra kinara nazar nahi aata usi tarha is ka pyaar ki had bhi tum dekh nahi pao gay..... aur agar is bachoon ko bura kahy ga to ye Pahar ki taraha us k samne khari ho jay gi aur bachoon pe aanch bhi nahi aany degi.... jab ye apni olaad ko apni goud main le gi chahay jit ne bhi garmi hoo bachoon ko apni maa ki goud main thandak mily gi aur agr wo apne bachoon ko dant bhi de to us ki daant main phool ki khusboo aay jo baat kery gi us main phoolki khusboo hi khushboo aay gi..... Ye Hay Maa...


to dostoo ye hoti hay maa ji samander jitni gehrai bhi hay paahar jitni mazboot bhi hawa jesi thandi bhi aur kuch us ki baat se phoolon ki khusboo aay.. to apni maa ka khyaal rakhoo usko khush rahkhoo main apni maa ko aaj ye msg dena chahon ga....

Maa main aap se buhat pyaar karta hon main aap ko khush dekhna chahta honn.. apnni sanse bhi aap ko de don tery saey main main peda hua aur tery hi goud main mar jaon....
Happy Mothers Day

aap bhi apni maa kuch kehena chay gay to plz zaoror kehena plz Take Care of ur Mother...

(Maa Tujhy Salam)

Take Care Of Ur MoM PLzz
Rehana Mohammadi.


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Re: [Yaadein_Meri] Do’s and Dont’s of an Interview

 

Very useful  line  Thanks for Iliyasaaz and Yaadein Group ... Jazakallah .


From: md iliyas <iliyasaaz@yahoo.co.in>
To: "Yaadein_Meri@yahoogroups.com" <Yaadein_Meri@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Saturday, May 12, 2012 7:46 PM
Subject: [Yaadein_Meri] Do's and Dont's of an Interview

 

Do's and Dont's of an Interview

If you're going on even an entry-level job interview take the time to follow up with a handwritten note, even if your handwriting isn't the best and even if you can't use four-syllable words. Just showing that initiative makes a difference. If someone takes the time to write a note . . . I've had many employers tell me it's a way they make a decision about hiring."- Cindy Zimmermann
interview dos and donts
I. What to Do….
1. Dress appropriately for the industry
• The Suit: A single breasted suit is suitable for all kinds of employment. Wear a single breasted suit with more than two buttons. Button the entire suit, except the bottom button.
Dress appropriately for the industry
• Fabric & color: Wear 100% wool fabric made suits to be more comfortable for an interview. Look for suit jackets that are fully lined and pants that are lined to the knee. Charcoal grey and Navy blue colours are most appropriate colours for the interview. Whether pinstriped, plaid, firm or herringbone, these colors always represent a professional look and are ideal for more conservative fields like accounting, law, and medicine.
• The shirt: White and other light coloured shirts are best for your first interview. Cotton fabric is best for shirts as wool for suits. It is also important to wear long sleeved shirt for an interview.
• The ties: The tie color should match your shirt/suit color. The pattern/design should be conservative, not flashy. Prefer dry cleaned silk ties for best knot.
• The accessories: The other important thing to remember is matching of belt with shoes and watch. Wear limited jewellery to appear professional in interview. Your socks colour should match with your suit. Like Black with black, grey with grey and tan with tan. Be sure that your shoes are shined and edges are not faded and laces are not broken.
2. Know the exact time and location of your interview
Know the exact time and location of your interview
Make sure that you have the correct location address, contact number and reaching directions to the interview point. Reaching late for a job interview will be considered as an unprofessional attitude. Rather arrive at the interview early and have spare time to compose yourself, catch your breath and take one final look at yourself before stepping into the interview room.
3. Do take an extra copy of your resume and a list of references with you to the interview
Prepare an interview CV to present the interviewer with an opportunity to examine your working history. It is also important to prepare in detail about the previous working experience, if the interviewer wish to know more in detail. It is also very important that you are having in-depth knowledge of the details within your CV to answer the interviewer questions.
Before going for an interview prepare a list of testimonial references for your interviewer to contact. The provided references should be credible and reliable and based on the truthful information of your work ethics and credibility. Make sure that the provided contact details are valid and still available to refer you.
4. Do prepare and practice the different types of job interviews that you might have
Do prepare and practice the different types of job interviews that you might have
Your interview performance can be increased by practicing before an interview. Attend some mock interviews to give you a leading edge in the performance during the final interview. There are different types of interviews conducted by the interviewers. Some of them are as follows:
1. Screening: In Person or via Telephone
2. One-on-One
3. Panel or Committee
4. Behavioral
5. Lunch or Breakfast
6. Group Discussion
7. Audition Interview
8. Stress Interview
9. Serial or Follow-up
10. Informational
5. Do prepare yourself for behavioral questions concerning situations you have encountered in the past, and how you would handle them in the future
A well-prepared applicant has an immediate advantage in an interview. In addition, being well-prepared and hands-on will reduce the job interview anxiety. Bring all the interview documents you might need, such as your resume, cover letter, business cards, references, licenses, certifications, a pen and notepad.
Behavioral interviewing is all about explaining specific situations you encountered in a particular situation. While explaining your situations please include background details such as where you were working and what your role was, when you faced those situations.
Do prepare yourself for behavioral questions
Always use "I" statements and not "we" statements. The interviewers are mainly concerned with your personal experience. You may be asked to identify a contact person, who can confirm the situation you have selected to discuss.
Remember to be as specific as possible (STAR):
- Describe the Situation (S)
- Give details on what you had done – Tasks (T)
- Give details on Actions you have taken (A)
- Tell them what was the Result of the situation (R)
6. Do have a high confidence and energy level, but don't be overly aggressive
Any organization wants to hire people who are energetic. Be energetic at the time of interview and don't be aggressive. Many interviewers start with the question, "Tell about yourself." If you cannot enthusiastically talk about yourself for at least five minutes or so, the interviewer will surprise if you'll be interested in your future job for much longer.
7. Treat other people you encounter with courtesy and respect
The above statement is applicable to group interviews. Treat others in your group with respect. Their opinions on you might be asked during hiring decisions. Listen to what others in your group have to say, but state your views respectfully, even if those views are different. Offer a reason if you do not agree with someone's statement. Be confident but not aggressive. Don't disrupt others and let finish their sentences. Praise and appreciate others' contributions and try to involve quiet people in the conversation. Work to build consent within the group and take criticism with grace.
8. Do express yourself clearly with a strong voice and good diction and grammar
Do express yourself clearly
Express clearly with a strong voice and good diction at the time of interview. Develop a list of power words that would be appropriate for you and the position for which you are applying. You may, for example, want to say that in your last job you "created" spreadsheets, instead of "making" them. Some other examples of power words are: "achieved," "compiled," "determined," instructed" and "managed." Also, instead of phrases like "I think" or "I would like," try using more positive-sounding phrases like "I recommend" or "My goal is".
Use power words in your interview. Try to use them in a proper way and they should convey a sense of responsibility, experience and self-confidence to your interviewer. Try to sound natural. Your use of power words should be fine and flow easily.
Conclude your interview graciously and confidently, and walk away feeling good. Using power words is not an absolute guarantee of employment, but you can definitely make a difference from your competitors who use average and informal language.
9. Maintain good eye contact during an interview
Maintain good eye contact during the interview
Make eye contact and smile. Maintaining eye contact during your interview is very important aspect. If you let your eyes wander around the room, you can appear negligent and disinterested in the proceedings and can lose the job. It is very important to keep looking at the person talking with you. And also ensure that looking deep into person's eye will create good impression during job interview.
10. Do have as much knowledge about the industry, employer and position as possible
Try to communicate what you know about the company when answering questions. Knowing as much as possible about the company's past performance and future plans can make your interview more interactive to be competitive in job market. When discussing your career accomplishments match them to what the company is looking for. Some important points to know about the company are:
• Company size in terms of number of employees and revenues
• Ownership
• History and notable milestones
• Products and services
• Industry trends
• Job description of position you are seeking
• Several formulated questions to further your understanding of the company, its current challenges and future goals
11. Be honest and be yourself — your best professional self
It would be a rare person who doesn't have some career baggage, whether it's being fired from a previous job, a poor reference, a major character flaw, a criminal record, being slightly under-qualified or another skeleton, which doesn't want to be exposed at the time of interview. Be honest at a job interview. The truths about you will come out eventually while performance checks of the job. It is also very important to avoid negative criticism about the old company. Be professional yourself.
12. Exhibit a positive attitude
The interviewer is evaluating you as a potential co-worker. Behave like someone you would want to work with. Try to keep smiling and maintain a positive attitude during your interview. If you feel that you are not doing well or you don't have a good answer ready, don't express worried. If you have questions or concerns, put them to the interviewer when the time is right.
You need to portray a confident and positive image when you attend your interview. Show confidence in your abilities without appearing arrogant. Describe your accomplishments exactly in brief. A positive body language plays an important role in conveying to others how you feel at any time. So, be confident and sit up straight and practice good posture.
13. Do take time to think before answering difficult or unexpected questions
Do take time to think before answering
Some interviewers may ask very strange and unexpected questions. Many interviewers feel that these kinds of questions may be helpful to set aside the potential candidates from the group. These questions don't help how you will do the job, but these questions will help how you will fit with others.
Questions like "what are your strengths and weaknesses?" are not unexpected questions. But they are usual questions. 'What If' questions related to organization and work culture are asked to evaluate your personality. Some interviewers may ask different fantasy questions which are unrelated to the real world of work to test your lateral thinking. Example: what three things would you take on a trip to Mars?
Follow below strategies for the unexpected and difficult questions:
• Practice some answers to these kinds of model questions
• Respond with good humor
• Don't take the question too seriously
• If you are given a difficult question, take some time and think for the answer.
14. Do switch off your phone
Do switch off your phone
One of the biggest mistakes done by the people is answering phone within a job interview. Once you arrive at the location, turn the cell phone off; don't even touch it until you leave the building after the interview. It is not advisable to put your mobile on silent mode. Because your employer can hear the phone vibrating in your pocket and assumes that you didn't care enough about the job to turn off your cell phone. If you must answer a call, notify the interviewer beforehand and give the full explanation.
15. Write a thank-you letter to your interviewer promptly
Write a thank you letter to your employer, following an interview within 2 business days. Write the interviewer a letter showing pleasure and thanks for the interview. The purpose of this letter is to:
• Show approval for the employer's interest in you.
• Reiterate your interest in the position and in the organization.
• Remind the employer about your qualifications for the position.
• Demonstrate that you have good manners and know to write a thank-you letter.
II. What Not to Do….
1. Don't be late to the interview
Dont be late to the interview
Arriving early for an interview can play an important role in avoiding last minute confusion. Reaching 15 minutes early will always give a great first impression. You'll be able to relax and grow comfortable with your surroundings. If you are late for an interview, be honest when giving a reason for your lateness. There's basically no excuse for being late. Below factors can be helpful in reaching early to the interview.
• Consider allowing an extra half an hour or more to your travailing time especially when catching public transport.
• Set more than one alarm clock.
• Get a good night sleep the night before.
2. Don't be overaggressive
Don't show over enthusiasm, overbearing or conceited at an interview. You know yourself and your background better than the interviewer does, so it is your responsibility to be sure that all-important topics are discussed. Be sure to answer the questions. Pay attention to what the interviewer is asking. If a question isn't clear, ask for clarification. Take time to think of your answer. Elaborate on your responses when appropriate. Give examples whenever possible. Remember that this is no time to be modest, but rather you need to confidently state your skill set.
3. Don't treat the interview casually
Don't go for an interview if you are just shopping around or doing the interview for practice. Be prepared for an interview. Treat other people you encounter with courtesy and respect. Their opinions of you might be solicited during the hiring process. Don't show a lack of interest or over enthusiasm.
4. Don't give an impression you are only interested in salary
Of course our salaries are important to us as they put food in our mouths but don't ask about salary and benefits issues until the subject is brought up by your interviewer. Because you don't want to look like you got into job for the money. Focus on the work, the challenge and let the money come later.
5. Don't allow your cell phone to sound during an interview
As already mentioned, one of the biggest mistakes a job seeker can make while being interviewed is picking up a call. Not only does it look impolite and unprofessional, it also gives your prospective boss the impression that you're not taking the job seriously.
Bosses and interviewers understand that you may want to pick up the phone in case it's an emergency. Reading or replying to an SMS message is almost as bad-mannered as picking up a call while in an interview.
6. Don't let anxiety or nervousness take control stay cool and confident
Treat your interview like a final exam. If you prepare well, the test will be easy. Practice makes progress. The more you interview and the more comfortable and polished you will become.
7. Don't take your parents, your pet, spouse, fiance, friends or enemies to an interview
Don't take your parents, your pet, spouse, fiance to interview
Don't take your parents, your pet, spouse, fiancé, friends or enemies to an interview. If you are not grown up and independent enough to attend an interview alone, you're insufficiently grown up and independent for a job. Don't bring your personal issues to office.
8. Don't criticize past employers or institutions of education
Most companies just prefer a positive person over a negative one who will drag down everyone else around them. And, our industry is very small-it could be that the person you are criticizing is a good friend of the person interviewing you. Some companies don't like the idea that someday, when you move on, you may end up saying bad things about them to your next potential employer.
9. Don't disagree with yourself in responses
If the interviewer makes a comment that you don't agree with, don't argue. It will tell the employer that you are argumentative. Let the interviewer know you contradicted yourself but say that you wanted to show how flexible you are. Stay positive and optimistic. This demonstrates your confidence.
10. Don't smoke
Don't smoke, even if the interviewer does offer a cigarette to you also. And don't smoke beforehand so that you smell like smoke. Use mouthwash or breathe mint before the interview.


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Re: [Yaadein_Meri] آل سعود اسرائیل کی آخری امید

 

Ji zarore batein phir hum bhi bataye me dammam me hota hoon aru us ke pas he qatif he . sub pata he ke kiya ho raha he. apna jhoot pane pass rakho dost.
iran ki koye hasiyat nahi saudia ke samne. saudia me aman he aur iran aman nahi chahta bus chatha he yahan bhi kufar ke halkoomat ho jo ALLAH nahi chahe ga..
ALLAH pak se iraniuo ki sazish ko nakam bana diya AL HAMDULILLAH.


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Saudi hukumat iran kay samnay kia hasiyat rakhty hain yeh saudion ko bohat khoob pata hai "THEY ARE JUST PIECE OF CAKE IN FRONT OF IRANIS" filhal main bahas barai bahas karnay kay mood main nahi hon warna bohat achy tarhan batata kha irani kia chatay hain & saudi kia .??? jhoota libada phan kar duniya ko baiwaqoof bananay walay saudi kia kar rahay hain yeh ab ahista ahista sab ko pata chal raha hai, yeh to pata nahi KABAY ko kaisay bardash kar rahay hain warna yehi saudi to kab kay kah chuukay hain KHA AGAR ZAIDA KHAYAL HAI TO APNA KABA LAI JAO,
 
 
 
 
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ایرانی حکومت کا ہدف اسرائیل نہیں سعودی عرب ہے
ایرانی حکومت نے جو اسرائیل سے اسلحہ خریدتی رہی ہے
اس کا ذکر کیوں نہیں کیا گیا۔
ایران فقط حرمین پر قبضہ چاہتا ہے
کیونکہ وہ اپنے علاوہ تمام فرقوں کے لوگوں کو غیر مسلم قرار دیتے ہیں۔
ان ہی لوگوں نے سعودی عرب میں فتنے پیدا کیے
 جس کی وجہ سے سعودی حکومت کو ان کی طرف سے محتاط ہونا پڑ رہا ہے۔
ایران اسرائیل کی مخالفت صرف عام مسلمانوں کی حمایت حاصل کرنے کے لیے کر رہا ہے
عراق نے بھی یہی کیا تھا
مغرب میں اسرائیل کی طرف بڑھنے کی بجائے جنوب میں کویت کی طرف چل پڑا

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آل سعود اسرائیل کی آخری امید

مقبوضہ فلسطین کے شہر اور غاصب صہیونی ریاست کے دارالحکومت تل ابیب کی اسرائیلی یونیورسٹی نے اپنی رپورٹ میں آل سعود کی حکومت کو علاقے میں اس ریاست کی آخری دفاعی لائن قرار دیا ہے/ ادھر یہودی ریاست کے وزیر اعظم نے کہا ہے کہ تمام ایرانی اسرائیل کی نابودی کے خواہاں ہیں۔
آل سعود اسرائیل کی آخری امید
اہل البیت (ع) نیوز ایجنسی ـ کی رپورٹ کے مطابق "عصر امت" نیوز ویب سائٹ نے اس رپورٹ کو نقل کرتے ہوئے لکھا ہے کہ "علاقے میں صہیونی ریاست کی حامی تمام حکومتوں کا خاتمہ ہوچکا ہے اور وہ مزید کوئی اہم کردار ادار نہیں کرسکتیں چنانچہ ان حالات میں صرف آل سعود کی حکومت ہے جو اسلامی جمہوریہ ایران کے سامنے کھڑی ہے اور یہ حکومت ایران کے مقابلے میں علاقے میں صہیونی ریاست کی آخری دفاعی لائن سمجھی جاتی ہے"۔
عصر امت کے مطابق اسرائیلی یونیورسٹی نے اپنی رپورٹ میں لکھا ہے کہ سعودی ایران کا اثر و رسوخ کم کرنے کے لئے حکومت یمن، مصر، لبنان، عراق اور بہت سے دوسرے ممالک میں مداخلت کررہا ہے چنانچہ آل سعود کا خاندان صہیونی ریاست کے لئے بہت اہمیت اختیار کرچکا ہے۔ 
عصر امت کے مطابق "علاقے کے ممالک میں آل سعود کی مداخلت بہت حد تک واضح ہوچکی ہے اور یہ حقیقت بھی عیاں ہے کہ آل سعود کے حکام خطے کی عرب اقوام کے انقلابات کو ہائی جیک کرنے کے لئے ایڑی چوٹی کا زور لگا رہے ہیں گو کہ آل سعود کو عرب ممالک میں شدید مزاحمت کا سامنا ہے حتی کہ مصر کے سنی عالم دین "شیخ محمد علاء االدین" نے مارچ 2012 میں اسلامی ممالک میں آل سعود اور قطر کے آل ثانی خاندان کی مداخلت کی شدید مذمت کرتے ہوئے آل سعود اور آل ثانی کو یہودی ریاست کے خادمین کا لقب دیا ہے"۔ 
عصر امت نے لکھا: "محمد علاء الدین المہدی نے یہ بھی کہا تھا کہ سعودی عرب اور قطر شام میں امریکی صہیونی منصوبوں پر عملدرآمد کررہے ہیں اور آل سعود کا "العربیہ نیوز چینل" نیز آل ثانی کا "الجزیرہ" چینل صہیونیوں کے مفادات کے لئے کام کررہے ہیں"۔
عصر امت نے لکھا: "حال ہی میں ویکی لیکس پر منکشف ہونے والی خفیہ سفارتی دستاویزات سے واضح ہوگیا تھا کہ آل سعود نے یہودی ریاست کی خفیہ ایجنسی ـ موساد ـ کے ساتھ رابطہ بحال کرکے ایران کے خلاف جاسوسی اقدامات اور دہشت گردانہ کاروائیوں کے سلسلے میں موساد کے ماہرین دہشت گردی سے صلاح مشورے کئے تھے ، اور ان خفیہ دستاویزات سے واضح ہوگیا تھا کہ موساد کے سابق افسران بڑی بڑی رقوم لے کر آل سعود کو مشورے بھی دے رہے ہيں اور جاسوسی کے لئے ضروری آلات بھی آل سعود کو فروخت کررہے ہیں۔1
ادھر عربی پریس نامی نیوز ویب بیس نے "آل سعود عرب دنیا میں اسرائیل کی آخری امید" کے زیر عنوان اپنی ایک رپورٹ میں تل ابیب یونیورسٹی کی رپورٹ کی طرف اشارہ کرتے ہوئے لکھا ہے کہ "بعض عرب حکومتوں کا تختہ الٹ جانے کے بعد اسرائیل کا "تزویری ماحول Strategic Environment" تزلزل کا شکار ہوچکا ہے اور اس کے عرب حلیف یا تو رخصت ہوچکے ہیں یا پھر اپنا کردار کھو چکے ہیں چنانچہ ایران کے مقابلے میں یہودی ریاست کے تحفظ کی واحد باقی ماندہ امید آل سعود کی حکومت ہے؛ تل ابیب یونیورسٹی کی رپورٹ میں زور دے کر کہا گیا ہے کہ آل سعود کے حکمران ایران کا اثر و رسوخ کم کرنے کے لئے تمام ممالک میں مداخلت کررہے ہیں اور جس دن آل سعود کی حکومت کا تختہ الٹے گا علاقے میں ایران کے سامنے سے تمام رکاوٹیں ہٹ جائیں گی"۔ 
تل ابیب یونیورسٹی کی اس رپورٹ سے بخوبی واضح ہوتا ہے کہ کہ صہیونی ریاست رو بہ زوال ہے اور آل سعود کی حکومت کا انجام بھی آل صہیون سے کچھ زیادہ بہتر نہیں ہے چنانچہ آل سعود کی تمام تر ریشہ دوانیوں کا مقصد اپنی حکمرانی کو بچانا ہے اور آل سعود کو بچانے کے لئے اسرائیل کا بچاؤ بھی ضروری ہے چنانچہ بیسویں صدی میں انگریزوں کے ہاتھوں بنی ہوئی ان دو حکومتوں (آل سعود اور آل صہیون) کا انجام ایک جیسا ہے اور ایک کے زوال سے دوسری کا زوال یقینی ہوجاتا ہے اور اسی بنا پر آل سعود کے حکمران اپنے تحفظ کے لئے یہودی ریاست کا تحفظ چاہتے ہيں اور آل صہیون کے پاس بھی اپنے بچاؤ کے لئے آل سعود کے تحفظ کے سوا کوئی چارہ نہيں ہے۔ 
عربی پریس نے تل ابیب یونیورسٹی کی رپورٹ کی طرف اشارہ کرتے ہوئے لکھا ہے کہ یہ رپورٹ "آخری جنگ کی تیاریاں، جدوجہد برائے بقائے آل سعود" کے عنوان سے منظر عام پر آئی ہے جس میں کہا گیا ہے کہ اسرائیل اور سعودی عرب، اردن اور خلیج فارس کی کم اہم عرب ممالک کے ساتھ مل کر علاقے میں رونما ہونے والی "بد انتظامی" [یعنی انقلابی تحریکوں] کو لگام دینے کے لئے قریبی تعاون کررہے ہیں۔
اس رپورٹ ميں کہا گیا ہے کہ یہودی ریاست نیز آل سعود کے حکمران اپنا تزویری حلیف "حسنی مبارک" ہاتھ سے دے بیٹھے ہیں اور مصر کا مستقبل غیر واضح ہے اسی وجہ سے سعودی حکومت نے پرانی پالیسی تبدیل کرکے بحرین میں فوجی مداخلت کررکھی ہے اور ایران کے حلیف ملک شام کو غیر مستحکم کرنے کی کوشش کررہی ہے۔ 
تل ابیب یونیورسٹی کی رپورٹ میں کہا گیا ہے کہ "آل سعود علاقے میں ایران کے مد مقابل [امریکہ اور اسرائیل کی] آخری دفاعی لائن ہے اور آل سعود کا خاندان اپنی کمزور پوزیشن مستحکم کرنے اور امریکی و صہیونی مفادات کے تحفظ کرنے کے لئے مصر میں اربوں ڈالر کی سرمایہ کاری کرنا چاہتا ہے؛ تیل کے ہتھیار کو بروئے کار لانا چاہتا ہے اور اوپک کے رکن ممالک میں اختلاف ڈال کر نیز خلیج فارس تعاون کونسل کو توسیع دے کر ایران کا مقابلہ کرنا چاہتا ہے۔
واضح سی بات ہے کہ آل سعود کا زوال آل صہیون کے لئے کافی مہنگا پڑ رہا ہے اور اگر ایک طرف سے صہیونیوں کو اپنا اور آل سعود کا زوال قریب آرہا ہے تو دوسری طرف سے آل سعود کو بھی اپنا اور اپنے صہیونی حلیف کا زوال قریب ہی نظر آرہا ہے اور آل سعود کی اتنی وسیع و عریض اور عجلت زدہ ریش دوانیوں سے اس خاندان کی قوت کا نہیں بلکہ ضعف کا مظاہرہ ہورہا ہے لیکن آل سعود کی فکرمندیوں میں مسلم امت کی کیا پوزیشن ہے؟ کیا اس کو امت کی بقاء کے سلسلے میں بھی اسرائیل کی بقاء جتنی فکر لاحق ہے؟ کم از کم ان سطور میں ہمیں ایسی کوئی بات نظر نہیں آرہی ہے۔ 
تل ابیب یونیورسٹی کے یہودی تجزیہ نگاروں کی رپورٹ میں کہا گیا ہے: آل سعود خاندان میں تزلزل، ایران کو یہ موقع فراہم کرتا ہے کہ وہ علاقے پر حکمفرما تسلیم شدہ نظام (اسرائیل اور امریکہ کی پالیسیوں کی اندھی تقلید) کے پیروکار حکمرانوں کا مکمل صفایا کردے اور یہيں سے اسرائیل کے لئے آل سعود کی اہمیت کا بخوبی اندازہ ہوتا ہے اور چونکہ آل سعود اور یہودی ریاست کی تزویری پالیسیاں یکساں ہے چنانچہ دو طرفہ (ریاض ـ تل ابیب) مذاکرات "میں توسیع" کی ضرورت بھی عیاں ہوجاتی ہے۔
رپورٹ کے اس آخری جملے کا مفہوم یہ ہے کہ آل سعود اور آل صہیون کے درمیان خفیہ اور خائنانہ مذاکرات کا سلسلہ عرصۂ دراز سے چل رہا ہے اور اس رپورٹ میں بھی اس کا سبب "یکسان حکمت عملیاں" (Similar Strategies) ہیں۔ 
ادھر صہیونی ریاست کے وزير جنگ "ایہود بارک" کا موقف بھی کافی دلچسپ ہے اس سے مذکورہ بالا رپورٹ کی تصدیق ہوتی ہے۔
ایہود بارک نے کہا ہے کہ تمام ایرانی اسرائیل کی نابودی کے خواہاں ہیں
ایہود بارک نے کہا کہ ایران کے سابق صدر اکبر ہاشمی رفسنجانی، بقول اس کے، اعتدال پسند سیاستدان تھے لیکن ان کا بھی کہنا تھا کہ "اسرائیل کے لئے ایک بم کافی ہے اور اسرائیل کو ایک بم مار کر نیست و نابود کرنا چاہئے"۔
ایرانی روزنامے "کیہان" کی رپورٹ کے مطابق ایہود بارک نے حال ہی میں "اسرائیل الیوم" نامی صہیونی ٹی وی چینل سے بات چیت کرتے ہوئے 2003 میں ہاشمی رفسنجانی کے موقف کی طرف اشارہ کرتے ہوئے کہا: رفسنجانی ایک اعتدال پسند سیاستدان ہیں لیکن ان کے موقف سے ایرانی تفکر کی اسرائیل مخالف رجحان کی اتہاہ گہرائیوں کا پتہ ملتا ہے اور معلوم ہوتا ہے کہ ایران میں سب اسرائیل کی نابودی کے خواہاں ہیں۔
بارک نے کہا: ہاشمی رفسنجانی نے 2003 میں کہا تھا کہ: "عالم اسلام کے مدمقابل اسرائیل کے سوا کوئی نہيں ہے اور ہماری معلومات اور اسرائیل کی حقیقت کی بنا پر صہیونی ریاست بہت چھوٹی اور ناچیز ہے اور اس کی نابودی کے لئے صرف ایک بم کافی ہے؛ اور اگر اسرائیل نے کبھی ایران کے خلاف اقدام کیا تو ہم ضرورجوابی کارروائی کریں گے لیکن ہمارے علاوہ 20 دوسری مسلم قومیں بھی اسرائیل پر حملے کے لئے تیار ہیں۔ چنانچہ کسی شرارت کی صورت میں اسرائیل کا وجود ہمیشہ 
کے لئے روئے زمین سے مٹ جائے گا۔ 

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